[KC_Conspirator]

You have a good point there. Back in ye olde days like 2 decades ago, a woman who had tasted the pleasure of an Alpha for one night or non-public short fling would understand that she probably outpunched her weight class and come back to reality. But not today. Todays modern woman thinks her high water mark is the standard. They could get used like a receptacle by a music star for one night at an after party, tossed aside and never called again, but then go around and tell people she “dated” said music star. Ridiculous.

[alexander_busek]

They could get used like a receptacle by a music star for one night at an after party, tossed aside and never called again, but then go around and tell people she “dated” said music star. Ridiculous.

Absolutely!

To be honest, if - back in the day - I had had a "fling" with, say, Darryl Hannah, Sean Young, or Jennifer Connelly, I'd undoubtedly also be regaling my friends and neighbors with the story to this day.

But I'm a man. An ordinary man. And the scenario in which I "get lucky" with a Hollywood star in her prime is ludicrously unlikely - let alone that it should have happened while I was a broke student or low-ranking office worker in my 20s. And yet I know women who will boast about having had a "dalliance" with a first-tier or second-tier rock star back in their hardscrabble youth.

Regards,

[grey_whiskers]

The reason for this, is that the woman thinks she has obligated the man to commitment (at her discretion to exercise the obligation, not his), by sleeping with him. Her rationalization would be some faint echo of the old "breach of promise" -- but in fact it is a sense out outraged equity or fairness: she has given him that which is requisite for marriage, her body (and affirmations sex, not "duty sex"), so it is only fair that he come up to snuff on his end of the bargain:commitment and a ring.

Little do the women realize the irony: women love to spit on the nice boys, the betas, "women are not a candy machine where you put in time and attention and love comes out" ..but they are treating the hawt Nan the same way: "hawt men and bad boys are a machine where you put in sex (which is a lot of fun anyway) and a ring comes out."