Oddly, I knew very few MJ smokers who do so to relax. Most do it because they are addicted to “Wake and Bake”. They cannot tolerate not being high.
As with alcohol, MJ users buildup a tolerance that eventually has to be addressed or bad things can happen. I have a 70+ year old cousin who is battling it now after all most 60 years of smoking.
The thing with the wake-and-bake crowd is that they are a little high...hung over, really...when they wake up. Just not high enough to “enjoy” it.