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Dear God... this is just so horrible

His parents should not only sue the school but the bullies and their parents as well

read on..

Who Is Responsible for a Suicide by Bullying?

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Suicide is the second-leading cause of death among people aged 10 to 14 and 25 to 34 in the United States. But this devastating statistic only tells part of the story. Countless of these lives were lost because of bullying. No one deserves to feel so powerless and hopeless because of someone else’s intentionally harmful actions that they choose to take their own life rather than face their tormentors.

If you have lost a loved one who was intimidated, abused, or harassed into believing their life was not worth living, you may be wondering if you can hold someone accountable. The answer depends on the unique circumstances—but in many cases, the bully and any person or organization that allowed the harassment may potentially be liable for the death of your loved one.

What Is Considered Wrongful Death?

In New Jersey, when one person dies as a result of the legal fault of another person or entity, a wrongful death claim may be applicable. Unfortunately, suicide is one of the known consequences of bullying, but each case is unique and has to be evaluated on its own merit. The most important part of a wrongful death case is to demonstrate a direct causal connection between one party’s actions and another party’s death.

Examples of Bullying

Bullying is a broad term that can describe various forms of intimidation, harassment, abuse, neglect, emotional harm, and more. Here are some of the more prevalent examples of how and where bullying occurs.

Physical Bullying

When there is a power and strength imbalance, victims are left defenseless. Physical bullies are usually bigger, stronger, and more aggressive than their victims. They typically harm their victims by causing physical pain or destroying their property. The kid who pushes everyone down on the playground is a bully. So is the high schooler who pours slushies on someone's head in the hall and the adult who is violent toward their partner. These are all examples of bullying that involve physical contact.

School Bullying

Anytime bullying occurs on or around school grounds from student to student, it is considered school bullying. Unfortunately, this can occur at all age levels throughout the education system. Students as young as eight years old have committed suicide because of school bullying. At younger ages, students may not understand the consequences of bullying. That being said, it is unlikely that bullying severe enough to cause a child to want to take their own life was unnoticed by adults at the school. At the higher grade levels, students or their parents could potentially be held responsible for the bullying behavior.

Cyber Bullying

The internet can be a brutal place. Social media makes it easy to spread lies and share photos or memes that make fun of someone. Some victims have taken their own lives because of websites created and dedicated to making the victim’s life miserable. This type of bullying can be relentless and spread quickly. Bullies never even have to be physically present to destroy someone’s self-worth.

Adult Bullying

Bullying is not only for youth. Adult bosses, colleagues, neighbors, romantic partners, and even family members can also be bullies. Domestic violence is also a form of bullying. Being bullied relentlessly can inspire a sense of hopelessness. One would think that as an adult, one would understand the consequences of bullying. But some people never grow up, and they should have to face the repercussions of their actions.

Who Is Responsible for Suicide By Bullying?

In some situations, wrongful death claims against bullies may be applicable. This depends on the age of the perpetrators, the nature of their actions, and evidence that connects the bullying to the suicide. School districts and other organizations may also be held liable under certain circumstances.

You, as a loved one of the deceased, are not expected to have all the answers. But the fact that you are asking the questions is a huge step in the right direction. Though no amount of compensation can ever undo the pain your loved one suffered, holding the responsible parties accountable can help you feel a sense of justice and make the future safer for others. Contact Us

Our compassionate and experienced team of attorneys at O’Connor, Parsons, Lane & Noble, LLC, can help you navigate the legal process. Bullies and responsible parties should be held accountable for their actions or inaction. We offer a free consultation to help you determine if you have a valid legal claim and the best way to move forward. Contact us today to schedule your appointment.

1 posted on 05/15/2024 10:37:53 AM PDT by Morgana
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To: Morgana
Boy, 10, kills himself

Ya? I'm calling BS. No boy kills himself at 10 unless he has help.
2 posted on 05/15/2024 10:42:05 AM PDT by JoSixChip (2020: The year of unreported truths; 2021: My main take away from this year? Trust no one.)
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To: Morgana

I can’t help but lay some responsibility on the parents who didn’t do enough to either stop the bullying themselves or remove the child and school him themselves.

They abdicated their parental authority and left it up to the school.

Sad all the way around.


3 posted on 05/15/2024 10:43:50 AM PDT by Valpal1 (Not even the police are safe from the police!!!)
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The worst thing I ever did (and I’m not leaving out the Big Ten, this was even worse) was to participate in gratuitous cruelty to a mentally handicapped kid who was one of the first to ever be “mainstreamed” into a regular class.

Fourth or fifth grade, I don’t remember, but I’m still ashamed about it 60+ years later.


5 posted on 05/15/2024 10:47:24 AM PDT by Jim Noble (Assez de mensonges et de phrases)
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Oh no...that’s terrible. He was a cute kid and would’ve grown up to be a handsome guy. Breaks my heart.


6 posted on 05/15/2024 10:48:46 AM PDT by moovova ("The NEXT ELECTION is the most important election of our lifetimes!“ LOL...)
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what did the father do that he is talking about? He should of went to school, got the names of those kids, and went to their houses to talk and take more action as needed with those parents. If nothing else, put your kid in private school. Kids that age need an adult advocate to actually help them.


7 posted on 05/15/2024 10:48:50 AM PDT by Jonny7797
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This bully, does he she it or they have a name or names?

In the case of my own kid it would have stopped the second time I had to go to that school to discuss it. That said there’s a lot that sounds really “off” about this story as presented.


10 posted on 05/15/2024 10:53:26 AM PDT by TalBlack (I We have a Christian duty and a patriotic duty. God help us.)
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Why would these parents ever send him back to this school once the bullying started being reported?

Adults wouldn’t tolerate it at work. Children can tolerate even less. Parents protect your children.


16 posted on 05/15/2024 11:07:09 AM PDT by Persevero (You cannot comply your way out of tyranny. )
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Just another example of the wonderful socialization they say homeschoolers are missing by not going to school and feeding the teachers unions.


17 posted on 05/15/2024 11:10:26 AM PDT by xp38
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Bullying was pretty bad when I went to public school back in the 1970s. Back in those days, kids were coached by their Dads to "punch back hard" on bullies but unfortunately, that solution rarely worked. Because once you are targeted, the bullies and sidekicks will just gang up on you. They don't fight fair and if the bully can't win the fight one on one, he'll come after you later with a few of his friends and really work you over. So unless you bring a bigger gang to the fight, you are screwed. Kids who are picked on in school tend to get socially ostracized and so the good kids stay away from them as they don't themselves want to become a target.

Social media has added a whole new dimension to bullying. Back in my day, switching schools allowed one to get a "fresh start" so to speak. But now, it doesn't matter what school you transfer to. Your new classmates will pull your profile on social media and see that you were tagged a "loser" from the school you came from, making it very difficult for you to start all over again.

As another poster here pointed out, social media is utterly poison. This is why our younger people are so indoctrinated. In order to stay in the "cool club", they have to fill their social media timelines with all kinds of woke nonsense. Lest they get "cancelled."

19 posted on 05/15/2024 11:11:40 AM PDT by SamAdams76 (6,575,474 Truth | 87,429,044 Twitter)
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What kind of parent leaves their child in a bullying environment and expects others to fix it????

Get your child out asap


20 posted on 05/15/2024 11:12:16 AM PDT by Chickensoup
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I've talked with a number of friends on this subject and we all agree: teachers turn a blind eye to bullying. In fact, sometimes the bullies are the teachers' favorite kids. They know what's going on in cases like this, and most of them don't give a rip.


22 posted on 05/15/2024 11:24:20 AM PDT by Cinnamontea
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Kids no longer have the cajónes to fight back against bullying, our society has raised a bunch of snowflakes who put too much emphasis on social
media content.


23 posted on 05/15/2024 11:29:51 AM PDT by Rappini ("No man is entitled to the blessings of freedom unless he be vigilant in it's preservation" MacArthr)
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How does a ten year old even know what suicide is, let alone know how to do it?   The Parents are to blame for this.
24 posted on 05/15/2024 11:36:36 AM PDT by higgmeister (In the Shadow of The Big Chicken! )
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Why in the name of all that is good are parents leaving their kids in hell?

Your child is being taunted and called names, you call the school. You child is being assaulted, you take them out. No ifs, ands or buts. Take your child out of the place where they are being hit.

This is not "preparation for life". If, as an adult, you are assaulted you call the police. If a co-worker shoves you into the wall and hits you they are fired.

That is the way the adult world works.

25 posted on 05/15/2024 11:41:42 AM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear ( Roses are red, Violets are blue, I love being on the government watch list, along with all of you.)
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1. Much of today’s bullying takes place on social media. Remove the kid’s social media, and the power of the bullies declines.

2. Parents don’t need the school’s permission to go after bullies. They can go directly to the police (absent a Soros DA who won’t prosecute). And they can hire a pit bull lawyer to go after the school and the parents of the bullies.


28 posted on 05/15/2024 11:50:56 AM PDT by Socon-Econ (adi)
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Bullies should be beaten to death by adults bigger than they are.

I'm serious.

Don't give them the chance to grow up into something worse.

29 posted on 05/15/2024 11:51:26 AM PDT by Ciaphas Cain (America needs deliberalization like Germany needed denazification.)
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‘Their zero tolerance means that they don’t have responsibility for it.
= = =

My kids went through this back in 1995 or so. physically bullied, verbally harassed on the bus... and more.

School says: We have ‘zero tolerance.’

That means they said the words, and any fall-out magically vanished.

I’ll stop here. My kids are still recovering from this, over 20 years ago. And my wife and I are not over it.


30 posted on 05/15/2024 11:58:39 AM PDT by Scrambler Bob (Running Rampant, and not endorsing nonsense; My pronoun is EXIT.)
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The parents said they had 20 conversations with the school about the bullying going on against their son. Why, after 3,4,10 calls, and the bullying continued, did they not pull the kid out of the school?


32 posted on 05/15/2024 12:05:33 PM PDT by Wuli
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Collective/gang/bullies v innocent individual. I stood up for a small, socially awkward individual in elementary school who was being emotionally bullied. Teachers encouraged me to look after him. I did. I wonder whatever happened to Eugene?


33 posted on 05/15/2024 12:32:39 PM PDT by PGalt (Past peak civilization?)
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Ping


34 posted on 05/15/2024 12:34:00 PM PDT by TNoldman (AN AMERICAN FOR A MUSLIM/BHO FREE AMERICA. (Owner of Staris and Bars Flags))
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