Right or wrong, this may not be viewed well.
One scientist, did a meta study, and found in all ten studies that women viewed men who cried as less attractive. This may not be conscious, but our lizard brain is deeper than our conscious mind.
Posted on 11/10/2023 11:08:46 AM PST by nickcarraway
USC quarterback Caleb Williams is going to enter the NFL Draft after this season. Some team is going to draft him with a Top 5, likely Top 3, pick. And it’s going to ruin the career of both the coach and the GM.
Why?
Because Caleb Williams isn’t ready for the NFL, but he’ll never get blamed for any failures. Williams is the perfect encapsulation of the Gen Z athlete. He’s extremely talented, but also incredibly self-centered and entitled.
Nothing showcased this more than his display after USC lost to Washington on Saturday night. Williams sought out his mother in the stands and openly wept in her arms.
He followed that performance with a news conference quote for the ages.
“I want to go home and cuddle with my dog and watch some shows,” Williams said.
Media members rushed to Williams’ defense, saying he’s human and he has emotions. If anything, they said, it showed that he cares MORE than other people and that’s a GOOD sign.
There is no world in which a potential No. 1 overall NFL Draft pick and franchise quarterback sobbing into his mother’s arms after a regular season loss is a good sign for his football future.
The media is going to LOVE Caleb Williams. It already does. And, therein lies the problem. He’s not like other “toxically masculine” football players. No, he’s the NEW generation of athlete.
There’s a rather large difference between crying and sobbing. And Williams SOBBED.
The Los Angeles Times described his postgame blubbering this way: “The 21-year-old climbed onto a ledge into the first row of stands, buried his head into his mother’s shoulder and cried. His whole body shook as he held her arm. She held a sign close to cover his face.”
It’s not about Caleb Williams crying after the USC loss, it’s about how he did it I spoke to a close friend, a former NFL player. He said that athletes cry all the time after games and he had no problem with Williams’ behavior.
True, athletes cry after losses. But, I’ve never seen one openly weep — after a regular season loss, no less — in the arms of his mother in the stands. Excusing this behavior is one thing. Applauding it feels incredibly strange.
So, after a USC loss, Caleb Williams immediately seeks to retreat into his “safe spaces.” He started in his mother’s arms and then said he’s going to cuddle his dogs.
Does that sound like the type of man who’s ready to lead an NFL franchise?
Of course not.
Neither does painting “f*ck Utah” on his nails. If he wore a shirt under his jersey that said that, people would be angry. But, paint it on your nails and you’re a hero.
Why? Because masculine men typically don’t paint their finger nails. Which is why the media loves him. We’re right back to him as the poster child for this new era of American male. The one who embraces femininity.
After all, there’s no such thing as “toxic femininity.”
Actually, that’s not correct. Apparently, there is a such thing as “toxic femininity” (I looked it up after writing that it doesn’t exist). And guess what? It blames male behavior, also.
According to a medically-reviewed article, “Toxic femininity posits that women are without agency and exist to be defined and judged of their value by a male in their life such as a father or a husband.”
Toxic masculinity = men are the problem.
Toxic femininity = men are the problem.
I think we’ve found a theme here. Men are the problem.
USC’S CALEB WILLIAMS JUMPING INTO STANDS TO CRY WITH FAMILY ‘IN THE SOFT CATEGORY,’ EX-NFL STAR SAYS
Media protection for Williams will aim blame at the team that drafts him The problem with drafting Caleb Williams with a high pick in the NFL Draft is that the team that takes him isn’t going to be very good. Plus, he’s a young quarterback, bound to go through the ups-and-downs of an NFL season. Add in the fact that Williams never takes responsibility and there’s a recipe for disaster.
In a Sports Illustrated article about Williams’ crying episode, the writer commented that the Trojans QB should just want to cuddle with his dogs after a tough loss.
“There’s not a soul alive who hasn’t had the same reaction after a rough day at work. And just like so many in the workforce, this particular bad day wasn’t his fault,” the writer said.
There’s that victim mentality that today’s media loves.
“This particular bad day wasn’t his fault.”
This is not to say that Caleb Williams didn’t play well against Washington. He did. Was he perfect? No, he lost a critical fumble just before halftime that led to a Washington touchdown.
Could he have been better? Of course. People can always be better. Was it all his fault? No. But shifting all of the responsibility onto others is exactly the problem with Gen Z’s general attitude.
That’s what the media is going to do to the coach and general manager that take Caleb Williams. Struggles will fall on the offensive line, the play-calling, the coaching, and everything except Williams.
And because Williams agrees with that narrative, he’s never going to stop them from doing it. The media did the same thing with Justin Fields until it reached the breaking point.
Interestingly enough, many people believe the Chicago Bears are in a position to land Williams in the NFL Draft. Some teams just never learn.
Caleb Williams is just like everyone else, and that’s the problem Many pundits made this argument after the Williams episode. He is a human being, a 21-year-old kid and he’s allowed to have moments that show his immature side.
That’s true. Here’s the problem: we’re not talking about a regular 21-year-old college student. We’re talking about someone expected to lead an NFL franchise in less than one year.
Why do people think it’s great that he’s “just like everyone else”? NFL quarterbacks don’t get nine-figure contracts for being like everyone else. Teams don’t draft players in the Top 5 of the NFL Draft because they’re “just like everyone else.”
No, those players need to be SPECIAL. That’s the entire point. Everyone is upset when their team loses. Most people just want to go home and watch TV.
But, those who are elite don’t. They control their emotions, channel them into getting better. How can Williams get better by sulking and allowing the defense and the head coach to take all the blame while he sits on his couch and watches TV?
Think about the stories around the truly great athletes. Kobe Bryant, Michael Jordan, Tom Brady, guys like that. Sure, we talk about their talent. But what really makes them stand out is that incredible competitive edge and ability to control their emotions in big moments.
Caleb Williams doesn’t display any of that. Is he going to be a good NFL quarterback? He could be.
But, talent evaluators say this kid has some of the most special talent of any quarterback prospect of the last 20 years.
I agree with that. However, to truly be the “special” NFL player that Williams want to be — and the one the media desperately wants him to be — requires more than just talent.
Caleb Williams is a special talent. I’m just not sure he’s a special athlete.
Right or wrong, this may not be viewed well.
One scientist, did a meta study, and found in all ten studies that women viewed men who cried as less attractive. This may not be conscious, but our lizard brain is deeper than our conscious mind.
Maybe the NFL can provide Caleb with a “safe space?”
give kid a break, sheesh.
Blacks never do anything wrong. Don’t they know that by now?
Blacks have an invisible shield that says, “Entitled to do just about anything.” Thank you Leftism for your perversion of society and enabling dysfunctional black culture.
Wow, what a baby.
Well, this isn’t a criminal act is it? And I thik he’s getting a lot of criticism.
And today is Veterans Day when we honor real men who fought for us that are/were younger than this child. Thank you to those real men and women.
“There is nothing wrong with havin’ a good cry now and then.
Doctors agree that it’s even healthy to let go and let flow.
The American people really need to get over their bizarre ‘Tear-Phobia’ for adult males!”
John Andrew Boehner, retired politician.
(sarc)
After painting his nails with “F*** Utah”?
Screw him.
checking the stats... hmmm... not bad. Let's see... uh oh... oh no
Ahem. He will stink in the NFL. Because he's a USC quarterback.
Exactly. It’s not the crying that bothers me about Caleb.
Some might say that scene vaguely reminds them of the famous statue called “The Madonna della Pieta” aka ‘La Pieta”.
by Michelangelo.
The Pieta depicts Mary seated. She is holding the adult body of Christ just after he was removed from The Cross, before he would be taken away and prepared for a proper burial.
“give kid a break, sheesh.”
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Nah, I don’t think so.
I am all for sports, but,I bet he struts around campus as some big sh!t football player who enjoys all kinds of academic perks normal/regular students don’t get. Then there are the non-academic perks these guys receive.
Big tough kid one day, blubbering cry baby over an “L” the next.
Regardless—NOT a good look!
Actually CRINGE
I don’t understand the weeping. USC put up 42 points mainly thanks to Williams and that’s usually enough.. It’s not his fault they have no defense. It’s good that he’s passionate and he cares, but crying in your mother’s arms?
Bo Nix is a better player.
No, but blacks need to be treated like grown-ups like the rest of us.
The Left never has, don’t now, nor never will help blacks get out of dysfunction. Those things keep blacks in line with the Left. Some blacks recognize that.
What caught my eye on this one is that his QB will never have to account for much no matter what happens. That triggered my response.
You know, I like blacks on an individual basis. They generally like my sense of humor. But as with “gay rights” so I hate politically-correct black entitlement. Loathe and despise it and of course I’m pissed off at blacks who do damage to people and things around them.
This guy didn’t really do anything wrong but I guess it percolated some thoughts in me about helping blacks grow up.
Wasn't aware of that and it is a little bizarre.
Well, the last month has been his worst as a college football QB, starting with three interceptions against Notre Dame.
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