how should we respond to complaints about a non-binary guest in the bathrooms?

Ask a Manager ^ | 4-25-20 | Alison Green

[Brookhaven]

Nowhere in the story or the comments was any reference to the customers the resort will be losing if they continue to allow a biological male to use the women's facilities.

[humblegunner]

how should we respond to complaints

If doing so in writing, beginning with a capital letter would be a great start.

[Jonny7797]

Good Americans turning themselves into pretzels to accommodate the sick people of the country. It will only stop if we all stop catering to these freaks.

[DesertRhino]

Maybe they should wonder what they will say when the deranged pervert exposes himself to a little girl in the women’s room and a mom or dad pulls their CCW and dumps him.
Also it would be nice to name the place so sane people can avoid it.

[SpaceBar]

Mace and brass knuckles?

[laplata]

I have no idea what a “non-binary” guest is.

[HereInTheHeartland]

Non binary?
All these stupid words that we are suddenly supposed to start using.
How about male pervert pretending to be a woman?

[BenLurkin]

Take him out back nd shoot him?

[RummyChick]

you don’t get your own pronoun

https://twitter.com/CharlotteEmmaUK/status/1517830776196317184

[JayGalt]

Exactly my first thought. If faced with that situation & no support for my modesty or comfort from management I would vote with my feet & not return.
“Pat’s” wishes do not trump the comfort of every other guest nor is there a requirement that we accept that someone can decide their sex & we must play along. That way lies madness.

[Bob434]

[[It’s great that you want to be inclusive]]

NO it isn’t- it is just coddling mental illness and outright sin that affects other people in a negative manner-

[subterfuge]

Would be funny if not so disgusting. “Pat” is a “they.”. SMH

[reg45]

They and them are plural pronouns. Does Pat suffer from multiple personality disorder?

[Steve_Seattle]

" . . . let’s call them Pat, who has been a resident about six years. A couple of years ago, they came out as non-binary . . . "

How long before someone posts a picture of "Pat," the sexually ambiguous character from SNL back in the early 90s?

[Carl Vehse]

Maybe they should arrange for a shower/bathroom facilities designated for deranged perverts that all of the LGBTQXYZ can use regardless of the phase of the moon.

[DesertRhino]

Maybe they should tell the lunatic it is not welcome at all.

[laplata]

Knock out his teeth and say “I’m the Tooth Fairy”.

[Brookhaven]

Most of the comments suggested they install a third set of facilities (bathrooms, changing rooms, and such) to accommodate the non-binary individual.

How much do they think that would cost? A five, maybe six figure expense to make one customer happy isn’t exactly what any business wants to spend their money on.

[Clutch Martin]

FR keeps me up to date on all the new words that are out because when I read one I have to open another tab and look it up.

[Clarancebeaks]

I hate transgenders and no appologies for it.