“The only hate expressed has been from you.”
Go back and re-read your vile, out-of-control posts. There’s obviously something personal and deeper going on behind the scene. The subject isn’t one-size-fits-all, although your opinion is appropriate for you in your situation.
Hard truths are hard to hear.
The adoptive boy betrayed his parents.
The birth mother used the adoptive parents to raise her kids, and now swoops in.
The adoptive parents will be gratuitous and lovely, but are undoubtedly deeply hurt by the betrayal from one they loved.
And no, I have no direct experience with adoption. I am a father of 8 to my one wife. All successful young ladies, doctors and engineers and soldiers and mothers. Perhaps that it is. I know the sacrifices and love I gave (and give) to my children.
As such, I am (apparently) the one of the few here capable of empathy towards the parents, such that I can put aside the pablum put out by the MSM that is designed to destroy the real family.