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Why Am I Now Always Having To Be Told It's "No Problem" For You, Whenever You Do Something For Me That's Actually Your Job, And Is What Someone Else Is Paying You To Do?
Merriam Webster ^ | June 3, 2021 | Self

Posted on 06/03/2021 2:03:26 PM PDT by 4Runner

As we're all taught as children, the traditional response to "thank you" is "you're welcome." This reply goes back to the early 20th century, but since that time a slew of hip, laidback alternatives—"it's nothing," "forget it," "think nothing of it," "my pleasure," "no sweat," "no worries," among others—have enlivened the language of politeness. One, however, isn't always welcomed with open arms, and we don't know why exactly. That oft-maligned expression is "no problem."

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TOPICS: Business/Economy; Education; Society
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Females seem to be the most oft practitioners of this infuriating verbal sleight-of-hand. Turning a positive into a double negative.
1 posted on 06/03/2021 2:03:26 PM PDT by 4Runner
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To: 4Runner

No problem, no worries and my bad absolutely drive me nuts.


2 posted on 06/03/2021 2:05:00 PM PDT by TexasM1A
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To: 4Runner

I always say that’s my job. Or no it’s my job

I cannot say no problem. I always keep in mind my company is paying me.


3 posted on 06/03/2021 2:06:44 PM PDT by stanne
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To: TexasM1A

I hate how some one says they are going to “reach out” to someone else. That is very creepy to me.


4 posted on 06/03/2021 2:09:03 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn...)
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To: 4Runner

This reply goes back to the early 20th century, but since that time


I first encountered it in spanish,

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_problem

but this says the english.


5 posted on 06/03/2021 2:09:22 PM PDT by PeterPrinciple (Thinking Caps are no longer being issued but there must be a warehouse full of them somewhere.)
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To: 4Runner

How about just being gracious instead of being offended at everything. I always say “sure no problem” as a way of acknowledging the “thanks.” If this is offensive I might as well just say “screw you old coot” instead.”


6 posted on 06/03/2021 2:10:29 PM PDT by bethelgrad
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To: 4Runner

I don’t use it at work, but in my personal life I use it quite often. “You’re welcome” seems to imply that you can depend on me to always do this favor for you, which may not actually be true. “No problem” doesn’t carry that same connotation. Basically instead of saying “you’re welcome to ask this of me anytime”, I am saying “it’s not a problem that you asked this of me THIS time”.


7 posted on 06/03/2021 2:13:23 PM PDT by Boogieman
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To: PeterPrinciple

What I remembered was de nada


8 posted on 06/03/2021 2:16:31 PM PDT by PeterPrinciple (Thinking Caps are no longer being issued but there must be a warehouse full of them somewhere.)
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To: bethelgrad

I agree! I think it’s just a different way of saying “Happy to oblige.”

It doesn’t offend me in the least.


9 posted on 06/03/2021 2:17:19 PM PDT by proud American in Canada (Fear is a reaction; courage is a decision. Winston Churchill )
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To: 4Runner

in today’s world you never know who you’re dealing with...

people nowadays have a tendency to throw a temper tantrum about anything and everything that offends them...

this article is a prime example...


10 posted on 06/03/2021 2:17:53 PM PDT by heavy metal (smiling improves your face value as well as making people wonder what the hell you're up to... 😁)
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To: central_va

Not everyone is Biden.


11 posted on 06/03/2021 2:17:54 PM PDT by Rurudyne (Standup Philosopher)
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To: 4Runner

Many years ago I read about this and decided to train myself so I put a sticky note on my monitor that said “You’re Welcome.” It was funny when people would ask me “Why do you have that on your monitor?”


12 posted on 06/03/2021 2:20:31 PM PDT by \/\/ayne (I regret that I have but one subscription cancellation notice to give to my local newspaper)
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To: bethelgrad
If this is offensive I might as well just say “screw you old coot” instead.”

And if you ever mouthed off to me that way in person, I would make damn sure you knew how to file for unemployment benefits. That's how "gracious" I would be.

13 posted on 06/03/2021 2:20:44 PM PDT by 4Runner
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Better question: why do some people get wound up about it?

It’s not a sleight of hand, it’s not a double negative. It’s saying it wasn’t a problem for them. Some folks just wanna get mad.


14 posted on 06/03/2021 2:23:55 PM PDT by discostu (Like a dog being shown a card trick )
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To: 4Runner

That has bugged me for years, usually is followed by ‘dude’, ‘pal’, buddy’, ‘boss’ or ‘chief’.

I prefer ‘I’d be happy to, sir.’


15 posted on 06/03/2021 2:24:44 PM PDT by Quality_Not_Quantity ("...for the sake of His name." Psalm 23:3)
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To: 4Runner

just say, Excuse me?


16 posted on 06/03/2021 2:27:35 PM PDT by Chode (there is no fall back position, there's no rally point, there is no LZ... we're on our own. P144:1)
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To: bethelgrad

We live in the sensitivity era as part of the decline of Western Civilization. I knew a very hard working Jamaican who loved America for what it stood for. His typical phrase was,”No problem “mon”. We could depend on that coworker to give a 100% and get any job done.


17 posted on 06/03/2021 2:27:38 PM PDT by shanover (...To disarm the people is the best and most effectual way to enslave them.-S.Adams)
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To: 4Runner

I hate that. Glad to hear that doing your job was “no problem.”


18 posted on 06/03/2021 2:27:47 PM PDT by Fido969 ( Sc)
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To: Boogieman

Interesting distinction.

For some reason I recall the bumper sticker “Yes this is my pickup truck. No I won’t help you move.”

I don’t get upset over it, but I did teach my kids when they are at work to say “You’re Welcome”. Whether they still follow that I don’t know.


19 posted on 06/03/2021 2:31:20 PM PDT by 21twelve (Ever Vigilant. Never Fearful!)
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“I hate how some one says they are going to “reach out” to someone else. That is very creepy to me.”

Creepier with clowns.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yt6DvapiK-w


20 posted on 06/03/2021 2:31:46 PM PDT by Dr. Sivana (Where do comic book heroes and villains get their doctorates?)
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