Big? You’re saying she’s fat?
I can’t tell much from those pix. At best I can tell a bit overweight. But not “big” as in obese, I bet.
Well, I try to hold myself to a standard and lose weight, too. Didn’t mind being called fat, either. I call myself that, until the goal is accomplished. I’m old enough to not have any sensitivity to that sort of thing. Long ago, I had a grandfather who was known as a “fat boy,” (6’ 4”, 320 pounds) and he was loved by many.