So the housewife that is married to the guy making $50k a year gets no alimony but the one making $500k/yr gets $100-150k for at least half the # of years they were married. Why? Same job. Child support for first is $5-10k, its 25-50k for second. Why?
All I can say is, if that is the situation, the husband had a low IQ in selecting the wife. And the husband is more dumb if he let the wife spend all money without his input. And finally, if you father kids, you are responsible morally and legally to support them until they become adults.