All I can say is, if that is the situation, the husband had a low IQ in selecting the wife. And the husband is more dumb if he let the wife spend all money without his input. And finally, if you father kids, you are responsible morally and legally to support them until they become adults.
Such BS. All on the guy and nothing on the woman. How do you stop her exactly short of threatening her, which will get your torn up in court? How is a 23 yr old going to know in 10 years the woman he married going to be 180 degrees different? Why does the cost of the child vary by the amount the guy makes? Isn’t the cost to raise a kid the same? Typical white knight BS. Women have no agency and men have all agency. Total BS