Great analogy.
“Mean Girls” comes to my mind.
They sure are juvenile, but they are playing to their LIV, not us.
When I was a junior in high school my friend wanted me to put a bid in to sorority. I did. They refused me because they said "we can't hold meetings at your house". At that time we lived in a housing project. Back then the project was a stepping stone to a better place later. Good people lived there. Many of our neighbors were like step parents.
One year later my mom had our house built. The sorority came to me asking me to join. I said," NO. I'm the same person this year as last year."
This is why I think that way about the dems. Childish , hateful , snobby behavior.