[Spunky]

"There’s always two sides to every story. Life is short and one must make choices as to what’s best for yourself and other loved ones."

So you think it is alright for a man to be cheating on their wife or vise versa and tear a family apart especially when there are children involved?

[STARLIT]

I say I'm not in their home witnessing what went on. I wasn't everywhere BOTH went either. Sometimes people take blame for something in order to spare their children from shame. Sometimes a couple marries young and one grows while the other stays the same. One becomes jealous and a division occurs.

I could name all kinds of problems that arise in a relationship but I don't honestly know Jesse's business. I've had women and men friends through the years in college situations that could have been taken out of context. So to say I think its OK for someone to cheat...and as you say tear a family apart...separation in a relationship I think can be the most loving thing a parent can do for their children.

I had a brother leave his family..disappeared...I have a feeling he left a situation that could have end really bad. So life is full of twist and turns only the people involved know the truth. Take care Spunky..