[STARLIT]

I say I'm not in their home witnessing what went on. I wasn't everywhere BOTH went either. Sometimes people take blame for something in order to spare their children from shame. Sometimes a couple marries young and one grows while the other stays the same. One becomes jealous and a division occurs.

I could name all kinds of problems that arise in a relationship but I don't honestly know Jesse's business. I've had women and men friends through the years in college situations that could have been taken out of context. So to say I think its OK for someone to cheat...and as you say tear a family apart...separation in a relationship I think can be the most loving thing a parent can do for their children.

I had a brother leave his family..disappeared...I have a feeling he left a situation that could have end really bad. So life is full of twist and turns only the people involved know the truth. Take care Spunky..

[STARLIT]

Good night all. Thanks for all the information posted today.

[Rusty0604]

So true. We never know what goes on behind closed doors.