With each passing Christmas that seems to never be meant for me.
Maybe some of us are just too broken for God to hear. Maybe for some of us our lives are mistakes.
Don’t give up. Really. Don’t.
Sometimes, God comes through in the moment we least expect. I’ve seen it over and over.
All of us go through times when we think that out lives serve only as negative examples for others (this is what NOT to do, folks ...) but those times pass. No one is too broken for God to hear. No one.
The broken ones are his favorite ones. He is closest to them. You are not alone. He is there with you.
That’s silly.
You are not broken, if GOD will answer the prayers of a sinner like me, he will surely answer your prayers also.
My faith in this is resolute, so let me know when you meet her.
If you are lonely today, know that I'm praying for you.
GOD Bless you.
Some of these posts from Freepers that are alone really breaks my heart. I know that I ruffle a lot of feathers around here (due to be a younger guy amongst elders) but it really crushes me when I read posts with lonely people yearning for a family.
I think in times like this, we should understand as Christians that we will prevail in the end. It might not be the way we want to prevail, but we will. That is the promise God made to us.
Also, I think this is a good time to remind ourselves that this is a battle between good and evil. The social engineers, evil politicians, and corrupt legal system has created an anti-family, anti-child, vicious materialistic society. If you are alone because of divorce, inability to find love, etc., remind yourself it is not your fault. It is the product of a sick, degenerate culture that sees people like us as an anachronism.
“Maybe some of us are just too broken for God to hear. Maybe for some of us our lives are mistakes.”
Please, no. NO one is ever too broken for God to hear! HE is aware of YOU personally!!
Years ago, I went through the SAME thing. I shook my fist at God and said that if He didn’t care enough, that I would end my situation.
HE intervened and from that day forward, I am CONVINCED that He IS aware of you and your situation.
I have a 20 yr old son who wont acknowledge me. He is my BABY boy - I would die for him even though he’s being a jerk to me. He’s my son. NOTHING can ever break my love for him. It is HIS choice to break our relationship. But I am here whenever he changes his mind.
God is there with you whether you think so or not. YOU are worth DYING for. Your life is NOT a mistake.
Trust me... Ive felt the same way. As time passes, you will see the meaning your life has and why sometimes it seemed like it was pointless.
P.S.- my wife came along when I stopped worrying about having someone. Didn’t expect her at all! And I’m no prize...
Sir, do not give up hope. It took me until I was practically 40 to find the girl I would marry, and I had the same desires and misgivings.
Keep working on yourself and be sure to find a good woman. For me, I found such a woman outside of the US, but who believes the same in the Bible and God as I do.
It is better to be single than with a poor match.
You get to keep everything you have if you remain single. You have a much reduced chance of being falsely accused of rape or abuse by remaining single.
Merry Christmas to you, Ciaphas Cain.
I’ve been alone during many Christmases. I pray, I eat yummy things, pet the cat, curl up with good books. I’m sort of used to it. Long walks help too.
Thank God for this beautiful earth — the trees, the sky, the beautiful full moon tonight. I feel totally at home in this world and you can too.
May God bless you, Ciaphas Cain. Your life is not a mistake.
Very sorry to hear. A good wife is a blessing. Don’t stop praying for one.
Take a look at a few videos by George Bruno. He did a couple about the carnivore diet, that’s how I found him, but he also talks about relationships and masculinity, etc.
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=george+bruno
Mistakes,,,
I’d hope to Then be a warning to others.
I say that in a joking way.
I’m sure the Creator of Heaven and Earth
Would disagree.
Don’t be that negative about yourself. It is never too late to meet someone special. Believe, and that will attract her right to you. It will happen to me, and to you. I am too busy caring for others to have someone but one day I will.
All of the best things I ever adored and loved was imperfect. And I always thought my life was not good enough to attract some one in. But I am am a hopeful romantic. Hope you keep prayerful on it too. Keep believing and Hang in there darling. Hugs. Merry Christmas.
No one is ever too broken for the Lord Jesus. Your life to Him is priceless, not a mistake. May this Christmas and New Year bring you an abundance of great blessings.