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Minneapolis restaurants ask: Would you please use gender-neutral pronouns when addressing the staff?
citypages.com ^ | November 8, 2017 | Emily Cassel

Posted on 11/12/2017 11:21:56 AM PST by lowbridge

It’s why, at Powderhorn’s May Day Cafe, a small sign taped to the counter bears a polite request: “The May Day Cafe asks that you use gender-neutral language when addressing its employees. Thank you.” A similar note, modeled after May Day’s, went up next to the cash register at Taco Cat’s Midtown Global Market stall in September: “Please use gender-neutral language when addressing our staff. Thanks for being a pal.”

“I think gendered language is pretty integrated in restaurant culture,” says Taco Cat co-owner Tristan Jimerson. “I’ve been working in restaurants for a long time, and sir-ing and ma’am-ing people, that’s just how you’re taught.”

For Jimerson, who in interviews asks potential hires their preferred pronouns right after asking their name, it just made sense to extend that same courtesy to customer interactions. Following May Day’s lead, the bike delivery taco joint became one of the newest practitioners of this emerging language movement in the service industry.

That movement got its start in the Twin Cities at Cafe SouthSide. More a community gathering hub than just somewhere to hunker down and suck up the free WiFi, the Powderhorn cafe was a place of radical hospitality, one that actively welcomed LGBTQ+ customers and served as a safe space for trans and non-binary folks. Co-owners Roxanne Anderson and Anna Mayer intentionally created that trans-friendly environment—it was always as connected to their mission as brewing coffee or selling sandwiches.

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Miscellaneous; Society
KEYWORDS: gender; genderneutral; homosexualagenda; lgbt; lgbtq; minneapolis; minnesota; pronouns; restaurants
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To: BigEdLB

LOL! Was getting ready to post that myself.


61 posted on 11/12/2017 12:11:16 PM PST by Ken H (Best election ever!)
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To: lowbridge

-PJ

62 posted on 11/12/2017 12:12:48 PM PST by Political Junkie Too (The 1st Amendment gives the People the right to a free press, not CNN the right to the 1st question.)
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To: lowbridge

“Pat”?


63 posted on 11/12/2017 12:16:25 PM PST by mowowie
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To: reg45

If we are at a bar, my husband always says “nurse!” to the bartender. People get a kick out of it.
If he ever saw one of these signs, he would end up kicked out if he ever went in.
I tend to say “sweetie” or “honey”.


64 posted on 11/12/2017 12:16:49 PM PST by ozaukeemom (9/11/01 Never Forget. Never.)
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To: TLI

Ugh. Just lost my appetite.


65 posted on 11/12/2017 12:16:56 PM PST by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: lowbridge

Thanks for asking but the answer is an emphatic NO!


66 posted on 11/12/2017 12:17:57 PM PST by Boomer (It'sOK2BWhite)
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To: lowbridge; All

I would never conduct business with any outfit with this gender-neutral policy. Screw them!


67 posted on 11/12/2017 12:20:47 PM PST by Cobra64 (Common sense isn't common any more.)
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To: gubamyster

Exactly. “It” if they don’t want to be he or she. “Hey you”, “Thing” works fine for me too.


68 posted on 11/12/2017 12:25:14 PM PST by Chuckster ("Them Rag Heads just ain't rational" Curly Bartley 1973)
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To: reg45

“If I wanted indoctrination, I’d go to a lecture.”

Or go to Starbucks for some SJW barista’s uplifting message.

Anyway, let’s see these joints make it with a 100% liberal customer base.


69 posted on 11/12/2017 12:26:01 PM PST by elcid1970 ("The Second Amendment is more important than Islam.")
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To: lowbridge

By all means, let’s dehumanize, denigrate and disrespect the staff, shall we?


70 posted on 11/12/2017 12:26:41 PM PST by Chuckster ("Them Rag Heads just ain't rational" Curly Bartley 1973)
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To: lowbridge

I wouldn’t want to eat food prepared in such establishments.


71 posted on 11/12/2017 12:27:15 PM PST by txrefugee
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To: lowbridge

The cook definitely looks like a “they”.


72 posted on 11/12/2017 12:29:01 PM PST by chuckee
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To: CodeToad
...because as we all know, Love Trumps HateTM.
73 posted on 11/12/2017 12:32:27 PM PST by grey_whiskers (The opinions are silly those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: lowbridge

OK, I’ll use HeyJackass.

HeyJackass, how about a refill?


74 posted on 11/12/2017 12:35:03 PM PST by Kirkwood (Zombie Hunter)
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To: lowbridge

“Minneapolis restaurants ask: Would you please use gender-neutral pronouns when addressing the staff?”

Me: HEY YOU! I NEED MY CHECK NOW!

It: I’m not your waitress. Do you know who is?

Me: I think it’s that stupid looking blonde over there who’s 30 pounds overweight.

See? Easy Peasy ...


75 posted on 11/12/2017 12:40:11 PM PST by catnipman ( Cat Nipman: Vote Republican in 2012 and only be called racist one more time!)
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To: stars & stripes forever

Nude wait staff would solve any discrepancies. ..


76 posted on 11/12/2017 12:41:56 PM PST by Clutch Martin (Hot sauce aside, every culture has its pancakes, just as every culture has its noodle.)
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To: lowbridge

So everyone is a waitress.


77 posted on 11/12/2017 12:45:19 PM PST by Professional Engineer (This account has been banned or suspended.)
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To: MayflowerMadam

I used to describe Minnecraponus as
“Where women are bitches”
cue faggy lisp
“And tho are men”


78 posted on 11/12/2017 12:47:29 PM PST by Fred Hayek (The Democratic Party is now the operational arm of the CPUSA)
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To: lowbridge; StarsandStripesFOREVER

Oh for the good old days when such statements were in order...

IF IT LOOKS LIKE A DUCK, WALKS LIKE A DUCK AND QUACKS LIKE A DUCK, BY GOD IT MUST BE A DUCK.

These days you never know

SAS—As to using the term STAFF, would you have to determine who gives or receives the staff?
Or, WHO - by natures design - is supposed to?


79 posted on 11/12/2017 12:54:45 PM PST by xrmusn ((6/98)""If the earth were flat, cats would have pushed everything over the edge by now")
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To: Professional Engineer

I prefer the term waitressaurus.


80 posted on 11/12/2017 12:56:34 PM PST by Maskot (Put every dem/lib in prison...like yesterday.)
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