I haven’t seen quite the adamant negativity from women here, as I’ve seen from some men.
As for your ‘experience’: you can’t change the past, but you can change your mind at any moment. Until you do, and believe in the possibility, you will never be able to find a woman who can be to you what you may want. You’ve decided that it doesn’t exist out there, and it’s so, for you.
The venom coming off of some of you guys is so strong I’m sure I’d sense it if I simply passed you as a stranger on the street...
And yet you never answered the question as to why you did not call out the women on here who agreed with the author that men are childish. I know why though. Because, like most of society, you think women can do no wrong. As an example, a woman who was supposed to be my friend told me recently that the reason I have not had a successful relationship with a woman is because I HAVE MADE THE WRONG CHOICES! Nevermind the horrendous treatment that I got from these women, nevermind the fact I have been lied to, cheated on, and otherwise treated like crap. The women who did those things to me were not at fault, No! I was because I chose wrong! So, in the minds of many women, they can do no wrong, and even when caught dead to rights being wrong, it is still a man’s fault somehow.
And do not even pretend to know what I think or what my experiences are! I have been dating for 30 plus years. I may know a thing or two about what I am talking about here. Realtionships between men and women sure have changed, and not for the better. So, am I jaded, sure I am. But it is not without just cause. And no matter what you think, the women I have had relationships with share in at least half the blame.
>>>I haven’t seen quite the adamant negativity from women here, as I’ve seen from some men.
As for your ‘experience’: you can’t change the past, but you can change your mind at any moment. Until you do, and believe in the possibility, you will never be able to find a woman who can be to you what you may want. You’ve decided that it doesn’t exist out there, and it’s so, for you.
The venom coming off of some of you guys is so strong I’m sure I’d sense it if I simply passed you as a stranger on the street...<<<
Take a guy like BizBroker who had a bad/terrible experience with a woman. He’s now older and wiser. BizBroker has taken the red pill and now claims he sees women for who they truly are and not for how men would prefer women to be.
Now that he’s older most quality women are married off. There are millions of guys like BizBroker competing for women too. Unfortunately women do the leaving in marriage at a rate of 70% to 30%. And of those 70% of marriages initiated by the woman, 60% are done by this term I read in a study, “unprovoked.” In short there are way more single middle aged divorcees out there that are the primary cause of a past divorce than such women who did not actively destroy their past marriage.
Once you’ve take the red pill, you will not entertain the thought of settling down with a woman who divorced her previous husband for some frivolous reason. Therefore, there are too many regular guys who came home to a wife who gave him, the “I’m not in love with you anymore” and/or “I found somebody else” speech than there are women who have had that happen to them.
There aren’t enough safe women for middle aged guys to all find somebody to marry. Maybe BizBroker can find a good woman. But imho that’s a zero sum game. If he finds one, another man will be shut out. And even if he thinks he found a “good” woman, he’s still taking a chance he won’t get divorced raped, as all marriage is now a contract with the state.
Maybe the hostility you sense is understandable. I have experienced that speech above. It’s quite maddening when you start to think about it. So many women have these goals when they start the divorce process. 1) Get rid of the first husband. 2) Keep the house, furniture and take half of the rest. 3) Get as much money as possible from the ex each month. 4) Marry the guy I’m having an affair with.
The first husband could realistically find himself downsized while another man moves into his house, sleeps with his ex-wife and the first husband sees his children less often than the new husband.
While the first husband is free to find another wife, it will be complicated by the fact that he lost a lot of his assets and will be paying child support.
I think it’s understandable for men’s behavior to be outright hostile towards the opposite sex when they’ve been burned. I’m not saying it’s healthy or even right. I’m just saying it’s understandable.