LOL! Our ancestors did everything they could to survive - even if they weren’t the nicest people. You can’t always be nice to survive, prosper and raise kids in the world of 19th-early 20th century America. Unless you were Sam Levinson’s mom (remember him?)
Amazing how we have similar relatives. But that’s NYC!
My dad was the very best. I miss him every day of my life.
I am sorry. :(
I have found that contrary to what i thought, remembering pops and uncles and others and all the good times cheers me up and doesn’t depress me like I thought it would.
Since you have been shown time and again to be wiser than me, you already know that, I bet.