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This woman is a poster child for following the advice of advocates of playing the "Game". Another women who spits at men who actually try to listen to her and be nice to her.
1 posted on 09/20/2016 4:31:41 AM PDT by C19fan
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To: C19fan

Fifty shades of B.S.!


2 posted on 09/20/2016 4:33:51 AM PDT by Dr. Ursus
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Ping for your intrest Megan dear.

Your Husband is a manly man. But was also much older than you. How did that effect your decision to get married?


3 posted on 09/20/2016 4:36:23 AM PDT by KC_Lion (Never Killary!)
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I’ll bet she falls for “manly” Moslems, too.


4 posted on 09/20/2016 4:37:07 AM PDT by Tax-chick (The coming of a Cthulhu presidency will be heralded by a worldwide wave of madness.)
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“manly men” = Simps that will buy her stuff, do chores, and “treat her like a princess” in exchange for sex once in a while.


5 posted on 09/20/2016 4:42:52 AM PDT by VanDeKoik
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Life is far too short to be around those who thrive in a cesspool of personal discontent. Why would anyone want to be around someone who's default mindset is "perpetually annoyed"?

I learned a long time ago to sever any bonds with people like that a leave post haste. Same with people who relate to others via arguing. Argue with yourself, I'm only interested in solving problems, not debating every single aspect of the misery of a given issue.

That being said, God provided us with wonderful women who are intelligent, thoughtful and very constructive in relationships, making the harradins and harlots of society subjects of ridicule, not viable prospects for relationships. The lefties can have them, let's all just sit back and enjoy the fireworks from a distance.

6 posted on 09/20/2016 4:45:36 AM PDT by Caipirabob (Communists... Socialists... Democrats...Traitors... Who can tell the difference?)
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be advised, manly men do NOT like feminists...
7 posted on 09/20/2016 4:53:27 AM PDT by Chode (You Owe Them Nothing - Not Respect, Not Loyalty, Not Obedience, NOTHING! ich bin ein Deplorable...)
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In the two hours we were together, he proceeded to put his hand firmly on my butt...

Excuse me, young lady but that's not a manly man, that's an abusive control freak with no control over himself. You need to get away quickly and find a gentleman.
8 posted on 09/20/2016 4:55:24 AM PDT by \/\/ayne (I regret that I have but one subscription cancellation notice to give to my local newspaper.)
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Stopped reading pretty quick. I would have slapped his face for playing grab-@ss. She thinks such abuse is manly?


9 posted on 09/20/2016 4:57:26 AM PDT by Mamzelle
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The author:

Another women who spits at men who actually try to listen to her and be nice to her.

The lesson: with some (many?) women, "being nice" doesn't work. They want somebody who is dominant, in order to feel secure.

10 posted on 09/20/2016 4:58:31 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (Big government is attractive to those who think that THEY will be in control of it.)
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And yet, I was turned on.


Don’t see much feminism here. More like human nature. If a woman is “interested” in a man it barely matter what he says/does. If a woman is NOT “interested” in a man it doesn’t matter what he says/does.


11 posted on 09/20/2016 4:58:43 AM PDT by lodi90 (Clear choice for Conservatives now: TRUMP or lose)
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In her dreams is the only place this took place. She wants readers to get the idea that she is brainy but desirable. Sure.......


12 posted on 09/20/2016 5:00:29 AM PDT by txrefugee
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> ... he demanded that I take off my sunglasses so he could see my eyes.

He’s 100% right. I hate women who were sunglasses. You really can’t see their eyes.
And this woman is a professional victim who enjoys her victimhood.


14 posted on 09/20/2016 5:07:21 AM PDT by BuffaloJack (Own a rifle. Be an American.)
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The number one attraction in relationships... this is what creates the chemistry of attraction...

We are attracted toward individuals whose underlying persona is similar to someone with whom we have unresolved conflict.

This is the reason for repeated relationship patterns. It’s also the reason that Harville Hendrix’s Imago Therapy works so well.

When these relationships reach the point of intimacy, each person then feels comfortable enough to project their unresolved conflict onto the new surrogate and they hate them, but don’t know why.

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From the article:

As a feminist writer, I understand that these behaviors denote male entitlement and indicate that he might not respect women. And yet, I was turned on. I have always been attracted to dominant men.

I have intermittently been dating online for over two years, and I have dated all kinds of men: those in white-collar jobs and blue-collar ones; white men; dark men; young men; older men; tall men; short men; men who lie about their relationship status. But what hasn’t wavered, is that, as a “traditionally feminine” woman, I end up being attracted to the men who come off as “traditionally masculine.”

From what I’ve glimpsed in dating these 30- to 45-year-old men, most of them seemed to be just as confused as I am.

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I have worked with women who are attracted toward physically violent men who beat them to the point of hospitalization. The women often say to me, “It’s as though I am addicted to him. He beats me, is put in jail, and I keep taking him back.. Over and over... Why?”

We never talk about their current relationship. We go right to the perceptual programming event in their life that created the wound they seek to heal. When that is resolved, which usually only takes a few minutes, the attraction in their current relationship is gone as they do not need a surrogate to resolve a wound to their soul that is already resolved.

The other factor I found in my research is that many (but not all) women who hold anger toward men were in their mother’s womb when she was angry at their father. It’s an inter-generational trauma passed from mother to child in the womb as a child in their mother’s womb cannot differentiate between their own experiences and those of their mother. (I have found this to be true in many lesbians(but not all)


17 posted on 09/20/2016 5:12:32 AM PDT by tired&retired (Blessings)
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Wait a minute she got felt up and was okay with that ? Some kinda freak yo


19 posted on 09/20/2016 5:17:04 AM PDT by csvset ( Illegitimi non carborundum)
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Basically, this chick is saying feminists need to be slapped.

Only affirms that these folks have a screw loose.


24 posted on 09/20/2016 5:28:21 AM PDT by fruser1
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This is from her story.." (cut & paste) I would never hire, date, or even spend time with someone like this.

"My story goes like this: I’m from the Midwest. I moved to Seattle 11 years ago because of my husband. We’ve been separated for two years, officially divorced for one. No, it was not good; it was abusive. We don’t talk, but things are finally calm. There was a trial; it was really bad. We have two children — a boy and a girl. I have them 50 percent of the time. I’m a writer and editor. I used to be in medical sales. No, it was not my choice to leave. I sued the company for sexual harassment, and it was a dramatic case that unfurled over a year. Yes, I’ve been involved in two legal cases in the past six years. In both of them, I was called “crazy,” but don’t worry, I’m not. I have papers to prove it! Ha ha. I went back to school, started a new career. I’m writing two books. I work from home. I’ve got a good life."

27 posted on 09/20/2016 5:31:45 AM PDT by tired&retired (Blessings)
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08/16 FR thread: I Only Date Guys With High Credit Scores
29 posted on 09/20/2016 5:34:39 AM PDT by Daffynition (*If you're not gonna tell the truth, then why start talking?*~ Gene Wilder)
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I wouldn’t touch this woman with a 10 foot pole.

Not even somebody else’s 10 foot pole.

I actually read the article. She’s a feminazi drama queen with lots of baggage, and not very bright.


33 posted on 09/20/2016 5:42:00 AM PDT by NorthMountain (Hillary Clinton: corrupt unreliable negligent traitor)
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She is a serial dater who thinks she understands men. She is in reality a mess.


35 posted on 09/20/2016 5:46:38 AM PDT by Leep (Just say no to half dead hillary and wrong lane kaine!)
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That’s how we’re made, b!tch! can’t deny human nature!


40 posted on 09/20/2016 5:56:58 AM PDT by I want the USA back (The media is acting full-on as the Democratic Party's press agency now: Robert Spencer)
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