14 Red Flags to Look Out for in a Relationship (for guys)

Artofmanliness ^ | 1,31,2013 | Brett & Kate McKay

[virgil283]

"You have probably had a friend who started dating a woman that really made you scratch your head. She was flaky, possessive, and high-drama. Everyone could see that the gal was toxic and really bringing your buddy down…everyone, that is, except your buddy......" Short video also..

[Salamander]

No I'm not.

[pax_et_bonum]

And just what is wrong with stabbing one’s husband with a squirrel?

[NorthMountain]

The Beguiled

"Disturbing" ain't the half of it. That was downright creepy, even more so than "Misery".

[Graybeard58]

Always leaves the toilet lid down.

Expects you to make HER a sammich.

[Graybeard58]

[Graybeard58]

[Graybeard58]

[catfish1957]

How about the proverbial...

Does this (clothing) make my butt look big?

Has this question ever been answered yes?

[gogeo]

Well, shame on you!

[gogeo]

But how could Bill have known?

[gogeo]

That’s a raccoon!

[gogeo]

The Clint Eastwood movie?

[CptnObvious]

The secret for a happy marriage: don't marry the girl you love. Marry the girl who loves YOU.

And lover her as a gentleman - strong and kind, and not a wimp. To have a happy marriage a man must act like a man and not a woman.

[daniel1212]

Applicable in some respects to choosing political leaders. 1. Shes a self-proclaimed Drama Queen . Beware of women who not only proclaim themselves to be Drama Queens, but also revel in the role 2. You cant stand any of her friends. 3. She says ALL her exes are jerks. 4. Shes a flake. Its hard to trust someone who flakes out on you all the time. Watch to see if your gal follows through on her commitments in all aspects of her life. If shes a flake with her employer, friends, and family, chances are she’s going to be a flake with you. 5. She treats waiters like crap. You can glean important information about a person from the way they treat strangers, especially those in a 'server' role like a waiter, 6. She expects to be treated like a princess. When one person comes into a relationship with a sense of entitlement and expectation that his or her needs should always come before the other person’s, 7. You argue all the time. 8. She gets angry or guilts you when you want to spend time with your friends. A good woman will actually encourage you to spend time with the guys, understanding that it’s good for your overall well-being, which is ultimately good for your relationship too. 9. She never apologizes or takes responsibility for bad behavior. Psychologists call the ability to recognize and take responsibility for bad behavior conscientiousness, and its an important attribute in maintaining a healthy relationship. 10. She has a bad relationship with her family. As the relationship gets more serious, you ll likely meet her parents and family. Watch how she interacts with them. 11. Shes not flexible. Marriage and relationship experts have found that flexibility — the ability to go with the flow and adapt to changing circumstances 12. You dont share any core values or life goals. 13. Shes violent. 14. Shes stingy with the appreciation. If your girlfriend rarely notices and thanks you for the nice things you do, such stinginess will eventually run your ship of love onto the rocks.

[virgil283]

'Question for the guys. How important is respect?'

It struck me one time that Paul wrote that men should love their wife and women should 'reverence her husband'. So her respect for her husband is paramount. Once she stops it all goes bad.

Or like a man I know refers to his wife as his 'roommate'.

[MarchonDC09122009]

OMg, that is Funny!
Great graphic for promoting PC / phone encryption products for guys.

[Gamecock]

I once dated a gal that fell out as an 8x, y9.

Fun at first. Then I caught her climbing in my kitchen window at 7 in the morning.

[Elsie]

16. Wants to change facial hair. (grow or remove)

I would not have dated that chick with facial hair to begin with!!

[Elsie]

[Elsie]

Yeah; I noticed that ‘dated’; too.