But if you don’t answer to their expectations they accuse you of lying
That list is insane. It is designed to engender bitterness, envy, dispair, and resentment.
It is totaly against human achievement.
It is one of the most destructive mental constructs that I have seen, but that seems to be its purpose.
Maybe it's because my parents didn't spend their money on Ripple and Blunts.
About halfway through that list I had advanced sufficiently to exit the empty room, traverse the hallway, and exit the building.
One has six kids and three either have graduated college or are attending (two are in high school or junior high) because their mom is all about them getting an education and learning how to be productive.
The other has three kids and she has chosen to live with losers rather than raise her kids properly - and the mom with six kids ended up raising hers as well, but the damage was already done to them.
Same starting point, different results.
It isn't about privilege in this country - ANYONE can better themselves. But these nitwits expect it to be handed to them.
My parents made choices that led to my white privilege. I did the same for my children.