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Who would want to date this toxic mixture of insecurity and ego. Can someone deliver her a cat lady starting kit. Make a sandwich *itch.
1 posted on 11/02/2015 8:20:05 AM PST by C19fan
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This woman is getting alpha female and bitch confused.


70 posted on 11/02/2015 8:51:02 AM PST by TexasFreeper2009 (You can't spell Hillary without using the letters L, I, A, & R)
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Oh, yeah....this oughta good.


73 posted on 11/02/2015 8:55:47 AM PST by warsaw44
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So you’re a complete bitch to everyone and now you’re trying to rationalize why you can’t find dates.

It’s possible that you’re not mean, condescending and nasty to everyone around you. But that would make you the first feminist I’ve ever encountered who wasn’t.


74 posted on 11/02/2015 8:55:48 AM PST by Tzimisce
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We're genuinely busy, and it frustrates our suitors. We're likely in a position of leadership or at the very least, slaying it at whatever we do. This means that we devote a good chunk of our time to doing the things we love and want to do, whether it's our career, hobbies or sports we participate in. It's not that we don't want you to be a part of it or aren't interested, but we're a challenge to get time with -- and not in a game-y way, but rather a "we've got real shit to do" way.

I've known this type. Didn't frustrate me at all. I moved on very quickly. I don't play second fiddle to anyone's "real shit" -- whatever the hell that is supposed to be.

78 posted on 11/02/2015 9:00:55 AM PST by Alberta's Child ("It doesn't work for me. I gotta have more cowbell!")
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I know this because I am one. We’re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men.

...

In other words, repulsive.


79 posted on 11/02/2015 9:04:20 AM PST by Moonman62 (The US has become a government with a country, rather than a country with a government.)
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Let’s do a Go Fund Me page for her,and buy her a Sybian.Her life will then be complete.


82 posted on 11/02/2015 9:07:34 AM PST by Farmer Dean (stop worrying about what they want to do to you,start thinking about what you want to do to them)
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About The Author

ANDREA WESLEY

Andrea is a 30 year old freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada. By day, she's a kale eating, gym going office professional and by night she's a wine drinking, Netflix loving pizza eater. She also writes a personal blog about her humorous dating adventures and even though she hasn't found "the one" yet, she keeps entertained by her friends, family and crazy ginger tabby, Jagger.

85 posted on 11/02/2015 9:08:58 AM PST by Bratch
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The issue isn’t her being an Alpha female - it is no different than the same issues displayed in an Alpha male -

She is a self-centered, selfish, tactless, insensitive to others, domineering, “my way or the highway” controlling person.

I have no problem with Alpha females, and really enjoy some I know.

The ones I can’t stand, I can’t stand for the same reason I can’t stand Alpha males who are exactly like them.

It has nothing to do with their sex. (Gender as they say today, redefining the original definition of the word - which I’ll not do.)


86 posted on 11/02/2015 9:10:04 AM PST by Arlis ( A "Sacred Cow" Tipping Christian)
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I would have thought alpha, males and females, would be those whom the opposite gender most highly value, not those who value themselves most highly. Those grades mean nothing in the kingdom of God where a different kind of gold is valued.
88 posted on 11/02/2015 9:13:05 AM PST by af_vet_1981 (The bus came by and I got on, That's when it all began.)
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Ma'am, you aren't challenging, you're just unattractive.

Learn the difference.

94 posted on 11/02/2015 9:24:36 AM PST by Wyrd bið ful aræd (Exsurge, Domine, et judica causam tuam)
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I don’t know what an alpha female is, but if you are whining about getting dates, you aren’t one.


95 posted on 11/02/2015 9:24:57 AM PST by Kirkwood (Zombie Hunter)
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I suspect this one will go through life never having a stable relationship. She’ll think it’s because she’s an “alpha female and men just can’t handle it”.

But at the same time, she won’t want a man who she can walk all over. That will be beneath her. She wants a man who’s strong enough to challenge her...but if he does anything that doesn’t meet her perfect specifications, she’ll go off.

Relationships where one (or both) people have a “my way or else” attitude are doomed to fail. If she doesn’t change, she’ll wind up alone with a string of bad relationships blaming everyone else but the person really responsible - herself.


98 posted on 11/02/2015 9:27:07 AM PST by Personal Responsibility (Trump/Cruz 2016)
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These type of delusional women are never happy because of hypergamy.

Because of out of control feminism, they do not think they have to negotiate or compromise in relationships because that would be "settling". But that is a part of being successful in all relationships in real life. Well, when this fool hits the wall at age 40 and becomes miserable cat lady - all the wine drinking and traveling and growing "number" will not make up for the emptiness.

99 posted on 11/02/2015 9:29:30 AM PST by KC_Conspirator
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Oh, please.

Being nasty is not a "challenge," it's a character flaw. And, yes, sweetheart men don't like it. Men who will put up with it are usually girlie men, or unfaithful, or the male version of a gold digger.

108 posted on 11/02/2015 9:44:36 AM PST by FourPeas ("Maladjusted and wigging out is no way to go through life, son." -hg)
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“We’re brutally honest.”

Translation: We’re mean people and don’t care about other’s feelings.


112 posted on 11/02/2015 9:48:11 AM PST by Blood of Tyrants (There's a right to gay marriage in the Constitution but there is no right of an unborn baby to life.)
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Women With Balls


120 posted on 11/02/2015 9:58:36 AM PST by aMorePerfectUnion
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...finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder.

Denial ain't just a river in in Egypt.

121 posted on 11/02/2015 10:01:11 AM PST by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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Andrea Wesley needs to get over herself. She isn’t that special, she just thinks she is. Who wants to put up with such an arrogant, selfish, loathsome person anyway?

Maybe she could TRY to be a little more humble and caring of others.


124 posted on 11/02/2015 10:07:43 AM PST by kcvl
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The entitlement mentality is strong with this one. I feel sorry for the sucker that in unfortunate enough to “land her”. She is the poster child for pumping and dumping.


125 posted on 11/02/2015 10:08:24 AM PST by rollo tomasi (Working hard to pay for deadbeats and corrupt politicians.)
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Uh, it’s not that we can’t “handle it”.

It’s just that it’s not salient (look it up).

Because YOU are attracted to these traits (being female) you, using projection, expect men to be attracted to them as well.

We aren’t. We don’t fear them, we don’t hate them, we are not unable to “handle” them.

We just don’t care about them. At all.


128 posted on 11/02/2015 10:12:01 AM PST by Jim Noble (Diseases desperate grown Are by desperate appliance relieved Or not at al)
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