This woman is getting alpha female and bitch confused.
Oh, yeah....this oughta good.
So you’re a complete bitch to everyone and now you’re trying to rationalize why you can’t find dates.
It’s possible that you’re not mean, condescending and nasty to everyone around you. But that would make you the first feminist I’ve ever encountered who wasn’t.
I've known this type. Didn't frustrate me at all. I moved on very quickly. I don't play second fiddle to anyone's "real shit" -- whatever the hell that is supposed to be.
I know this because I am one. Weââ¬â¢re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. Weââ¬â¢re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men.
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In other words, repulsive.
Let’s do a Go Fund Me page for her,and buy her a Sybian.Her life will then be complete.
Andrea is a 30 year old freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada. By day, she's a kale eating, gym going office professional and by night she's a wine drinking, Netflix loving pizza eater. She also writes a personal blog about her humorous dating adventures and even though she hasn't found "the one" yet, she keeps entertained by her friends, family and crazy ginger tabby, Jagger.
The issue isn’t her being an Alpha female - it is no different than the same issues displayed in an Alpha male -
She is a self-centered, selfish, tactless, insensitive to others, domineering, “my way or the highway” controlling person.
I have no problem with Alpha females, and really enjoy some I know.
The ones I can’t stand, I can’t stand for the same reason I can’t stand Alpha males who are exactly like them.
It has nothing to do with their sex. (Gender as they say today, redefining the original definition of the word - which I’ll not do.)
Learn the difference.
I don’t know what an alpha female is, but if you are whining about getting dates, you aren’t one.
I suspect this one will go through life never having a stable relationship. She’ll think it’s because she’s an “alpha female and men just can’t handle it”.
But at the same time, she won’t want a man who she can walk all over. That will be beneath her. She wants a man who’s strong enough to challenge her...but if he does anything that doesn’t meet her perfect specifications, she’ll go off.
Relationships where one (or both) people have a “my way or else” attitude are doomed to fail. If she doesn’t change, she’ll wind up alone with a string of bad relationships blaming everyone else but the person really responsible - herself.
Because of out of control feminism, they do not think they have to negotiate or compromise in relationships because that would be "settling". But that is a part of being successful in all relationships in real life. Well, when this fool hits the wall at age 40 and becomes miserable cat lady - all the wine drinking and traveling and growing "number" will not make up for the emptiness.
Being nasty is not a "challenge," it's a character flaw. And, yes, sweetheart men don't like it. Men who will put up with it are usually girlie men, or unfaithful, or the male version of a gold digger.
“Weâre brutally honest.”
Translation: We’re mean people and don’t care about other’s feelings.
Women With Balls
Denial ain't just a river in in Egypt.
Andrea Wesley needs to get over herself. She isn’t that special, she just thinks she is. Who wants to put up with such an arrogant, selfish, loathsome person anyway?
Maybe she could TRY to be a little more humble and caring of others.
The entitlement mentality is strong with this one. I feel sorry for the sucker that in unfortunate enough to “land her”. She is the poster child for pumping and dumping.
Uh, it’s not that we can’t “handle it”.
It’s just that it’s not salient (look it up).
Because YOU are attracted to these traits (being female) you, using projection, expect men to be attracted to them as well.
We aren’t. We don’t fear them, we don’t hate them, we are not unable to “handle” them.
We just don’t care about them. At all.