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The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female
The Bolde ^ | October 12, 2015 | Andrea Wesley

Posted on 11/02/2015 8:20:05 AM PST by C19fan

eing an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty awesome. I know this because I am one. We’re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men. This makes our dating lives more of a challenge to navigate. We’re not your typical submissive and doting partners, we’re a challenge. For this reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder. These are the real struggles of being an alpha female in the dating world.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: alphafemale; crazybroads; dating; goddess; hottie; pua; redpill; trp
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To: Norm Lenhart

Had actually. She sings in the choir invisible. But ye she did ;)
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Sorry about that. Me too. Heaven was short of angels, so they took my guys.


221 posted on 11/02/2015 3:39:21 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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To: CatherineofAragon

I know there are some females who have some idea they’re superior for not wearing it. I never understood that, really.
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You missed the point. As I clearly said above, I didn’t need makeup.
You seem to think that because some people don’t care for makeup, they should accept what YOU like because YOU consider it the thing to do. Sorry, but I’ve never been a follower. People tend to follow me.
By the way, the “ Oooh, meow!” suits you. I never cared for cats...or women who act like them. I prefer dogs. Dogs tend to be loyal.


222 posted on 11/02/2015 3:55:01 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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To: Mollypitcher1

Hey, don’t go away mad.

U mad?


223 posted on 11/02/2015 3:56:15 PM PST by CatherineofAragon ("A real conservative will bear the scars...will have been in the trenches fighting."--- Ted Cruz)
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To: CatherineofAragon

I never get “mad.” That’s for dogs and Englishmen. Very rarely, if sufficiently provoked, I just might get “even.”


224 posted on 11/02/2015 4:01:56 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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To: Mollypitcher1

I never wear makeup unless we are going out. My husband doesn’t really like it.


225 posted on 11/02/2015 4:02:20 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Mollypitcher1

I’ve always been impressed by internet bluster.

Now just as much as ever. :)


226 posted on 11/02/2015 4:04:49 PM PST by CatherineofAragon ("A real conservative will bear the scars...will have been in the trenches fighting."--- Ted Cruz)
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To: trisham

I never wear makeup unless we are going out. My husband doesn’t really like it.
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A lot of men don’t really like it. One of my husbands , like yours, didn’t like it either. In fact he said it was one of the reasons I caught his eye. Some men just don’t like “wearing” secondhand makeup on their face or clothes. Makes sense to me. Another thing they don’t like is a woman’s hair to feel like brittle straw because of “teasing” and spraying it. Can’t blame them there either.


227 posted on 11/02/2015 4:13:07 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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To: Mollypitcher1

I hear you. It’s one of the things that I liked about my husband early on.


228 posted on 11/02/2015 4:18:44 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: CatherineofAragon

Yes, I’ve often noticed.


229 posted on 11/02/2015 4:18:47 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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To: trisham

I hear you. It’s one of the things that I liked about my husband early on.
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230 posted on 11/02/2015 4:21:50 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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To: Norm Lenhart

LOL. Well now, the mention of horseradish seems to have really gotten a response. So, you like Tabasco. That’s okay too.


231 posted on 11/02/2015 4:25:41 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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To: Mollypitcher1

Onions make me literally vomit and Horseradish/cabbage/Kraut/Broccoli is nearly at that level. I can’t smell it/them without gagging physically.

The only other food in that category is Cilantro. It doesn’t make me physically react like the others but I really, really don’t like it.


232 posted on 11/02/2015 4:42:21 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Embrace Existential Cage Theory. Solutions start at home.)
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To: Mollypitcher1

I think a lot of that is because many women either use horrid colors and look like a clown, or apply it with a slingshot. Otherwise we can put up with a lot of little crap like that.

Some women look great without it. My wife never wore makeup. Basically no one ever taught her how to do it right so she didn’t. Looked fantastic. Got compliments and hit on regularly. Many women like that.

One day a friend of hers who was a pro beautician ragged her into letting her do a full blown glam job.

Jesus. Staggering difference. Looked ethereal. But it took 2 hours to apply and there was no way in hell she would deal with doing that on a daily basis. So she had to stick with simply looking great naturally ;)


233 posted on 11/02/2015 4:50:38 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Embrace Existential Cage Theory. Solutions start at home.)
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To: Lazamataz

Be sure to save some of that tape for her mouth...just sayin’.


234 posted on 11/02/2015 4:58:40 PM PST by gogeo (If you are Tea Party, the GOPee does not want you.)
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To: Norm Lenhart

Yeah, it’s crazy how much difference makeup can make.

Not long ago a FR thread about some model tickled me. A few guys were saying, oh, she’s beautiful, and she isn’t even wearing any makeup. There were a few females present, too, and we had to point out, “She’s wearing concealer, and blush, and brow pencil, and mascara...also eye shadow, and some clear lip gloss.” LOL

We Southern girls do enjoy fixing up and looking good, and we don’t apologize for it.

(And I am sure your redheaded bride was naturally lovely, makeup or no makeup).


235 posted on 11/02/2015 5:01:11 PM PST by CatherineofAragon ("A real conservative will bear the scars...will have been in the trenches fighting."--- Ted Cruz)
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To: Liberty Valance

I bet she can make a sandwich, but she would tell you to get off your lazy butt and make your own. And she wouldn’t waste time saying it with grace. Such are the lonely old women I see now in my age group, they made their own future by snapping at anything that even seemed to be graceful from a man.


236 posted on 11/02/2015 5:10:46 PM PST by MHGinTN (Is it really all relative, Mister Einstein?)
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To: CatherineofAragon

There are sites that do the with/without side by sides. One I saw had modern porn chicks which as you can imagine are heavy on makeup.

Mindblowing. Some of them couldn’t get laid in a dive bar at closing time. Amazingly ugly. But awesomely hot in warpaint.


237 posted on 11/02/2015 5:13:52 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Embrace Existential Cage Theory. Solutions start at home.)
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To: Norm Lenhart

LOL


238 posted on 11/02/2015 5:15:15 PM PST by CatherineofAragon ("A real conservative will bear the scars...will have been in the trenches fighting."--- Ted Cruz)
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To: CatherineofAragon

http://funnie.st/309/p0rnstars-without-makeup/

Appearances ARE decieving ;)

Some are fine before. Some are hot before. Others...eh...well, we report, you decide ;)


239 posted on 11/02/2015 5:20:09 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Embrace Existential Cage Theory. Solutions start at home.)
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To: C19fan

I wonder how many cats it’s going to take to make her pain go away ;)


240 posted on 11/02/2015 5:45:39 PM PST by Trillian
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