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The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female
The Bolde ^ | October 12, 2015 | Andrea Wesley

Posted on 11/02/2015 8:20:05 AM PST by C19fan

eing an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty awesome. I know this because I am one. We’re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men. This makes our dating lives more of a challenge to navigate. We’re not your typical submissive and doting partners, we’re a challenge. For this reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder. These are the real struggles of being an alpha female in the dating world.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: alphafemale; crazybroads; dating; goddess; hottie; pua; redpill; trp
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To: SeaHawkFan
An alpha female can still be a lady and be attracted to a strong man, and let him fulfill his role in a relationship if she is willing allow him to do it.

My first wife (God rest her soul) was a very strong woman. She suffered through medical problems that would probably have left this self-styled "alpha female" blubbering for help. My second wife is likewise a very strong woman. Both marriages were/are very happy.

There is a very big difference between being a strong woman and being a domineering woman. I've been lucky twice.

161 posted on 11/02/2015 12:01:46 PM PST by JoeFromSidney (,)
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To: riri

Kind of, yeah.


162 posted on 11/02/2015 12:04:58 PM PST by Bloody Sam Roberts (Democracy is not freedom. Democracy is simply majoritarianism. It is incompatible with real freedom.)
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To: KC_Lion

PING!!!


163 posted on 11/02/2015 12:13:37 PM PST by GOPsterinMA (I'm with Steve McQueen: I live my life for myself and answer to nobody.)
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To: Mollypitcher1
"Strong, independent minded women are an entirely different breed than Andrea"

Yes indeed. My fiancé is one and her strength and durability as well as her common sense draws me to her.

164 posted on 11/02/2015 12:17:49 PM PST by Jimmy Valentine (DemocRATS - when they speak, they lie; when they are silent, they are stealing the American Dream)
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To: Finny

The first rule of Alpha Club is you never talk about Alpha Club. If you have to tell someone you are, than you aren’t.

Secondly, alpha females don’t write articles whining about ANYTHING. They simply go forth and DO something about the issue in question. Like their male counterparts. Thats what makes them an Alpha type in the first place.


165 posted on 11/02/2015 12:23:53 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Embrace Existential Cage Theory. Solutions start at home.)
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To: Fawn
One of the arguments that I have seen ignored is that, in this culture, is that women choose, having controlled your knees, you chose a looser. Remember through this process you had absolute control over Yes or No.

Why should I have to pay for your stupidity if you choose him over a dog.

166 posted on 11/02/2015 12:27:20 PM PST by Little Bill (EVICT Queen Jean)
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To: VanDeKoik

Oh yea there is.


167 posted on 11/02/2015 12:34:39 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Embrace Existential Cage Theory. Solutions start at home.)
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To: Lazamataz

I’m sure this is what the author looks like. ROFLMAO!!


168 posted on 11/02/2015 12:35:10 PM PST by HeartlandOfAmerica (How can God bless a country that's BUTCHERED 53 million babies?? Almost as many as ALL killed inWWII)
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To: C19fan

alpha female = OLD MAID......


169 posted on 11/02/2015 12:39:58 PM PST by zzwhale
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To: Mollypitcher1

The fact that you don’t have to waste half of your life playing guessing games as to their mood/wants/desires.

they are straight up and tell you what any given deal is without “Does this dress make my ass look big?” stupidity. If they ask, you tell them and they go to the gum or they don’t and thats the end of it.

Overall, it can be condensed into “They grew up” and arent stuck in a high school girl mindset on any given issue.


170 posted on 11/02/2015 12:49:47 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Embrace Existential Cage Theory. Solutions start at home.)
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To: Norm Lenhart

Women do not exist without the utility and protection of men.

They can call themselves alphas all they want, but it’s like a kid saying they are the alpha child and then asking his parents for a ride to the mall.


172 posted on 11/02/2015 1:08:46 PM PST by VanDeKoik
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To: VanDeKoik

Well you can believe anything you like. In the meantime, plenty of alpha women will go right on existing without your acceptance.


173 posted on 11/02/2015 1:10:29 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Embrace Existential Cage Theory. Solutions start at home.)
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To: warsaw44

She wants to be a man with a p*ssy.


174 posted on 11/02/2015 1:12:34 PM PST by dfwgator
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To: Fawn

Well, except for Dennis in The Life of Brian....


175 posted on 11/02/2015 1:13:50 PM PST by Rurudyne (Standup Philosopher)
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To: Finny

Amen, sistah! “;^>


176 posted on 11/02/2015 1:24:47 PM PST by b9
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To: JoeFromSidney

Good for you. You have been a blessed man.


177 posted on 11/02/2015 1:39:14 PM PST by SeaHawkFan
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To: Norm Lenhart

Wonderful answers. Unfortunately, some guys love that little high school girl image until they finally wake up and see her for what she is.


178 posted on 11/02/2015 2:31:50 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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To: sauropod

“Make me a sammich!”


179 posted on 11/02/2015 2:34:35 PM PST by headstamp 2
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To: Jimmy Valentine

Just a little word to always remember...a strong woman loves a strong man who is tender.


180 posted on 11/02/2015 2:39:24 PM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
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