My first wife (God rest her soul) was a very strong woman. She suffered through medical problems that would probably have left this self-styled "alpha female" blubbering for help. My second wife is likewise a very strong woman. Both marriages were/are very happy.
There is a very big difference between being a strong woman and being a domineering woman. I've been lucky twice.
Good for you. You have been a blessed man.
Good for you. I’m sure you deserve good women. Your attitude shows it.
I kinda think the gals (sorry to hear of your first loss) who married you were lucky, too.