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Dear Miss Manners: I am a teenage boy who apparently has impregnated a teenage girl...
uexpress.com ^ | March 1, 2015 | Miss Manners

Posted on 04/17/2015 12:07:43 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o

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DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am a teenage boy who apparently has impregnated a teenage girl. She says she's in love with me still, but also she will not get an abortion and insists that I pay support. I think this is all mood swings. How do I support her morally but not monetarily?

GENTLE READER: That is neither a moral nor a legal position. Miss Manners trusts that the young lady's lawyer will explain that to you.

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A recent letter to Miss Manners helps document the point about how abortion makes men startlingly unaware of their own parental responsibilities. Miss Manners, pen name of Judith Martin, takes a simple and pitch-perfect approach.
1 posted on 04/17/2015 12:07:43 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o
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To: Tax-chick

Since you are one to appreciate simplicity, even elegance of expression...


2 posted on 04/17/2015 12:08:40 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("Stone cold sober, as a matter of fact.")
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To: Mrs. Don-o

The sexual revolution is over - and men won.


3 posted on 04/17/2015 12:10:15 PM PDT by PGR88
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To: Mrs. Don-o

The father needs to explain it to him.


4 posted on 04/17/2015 12:10:56 PM PDT by MrB (The difference between a Humanist and a Satanist - the latter admits whom he's working for)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

A modern teen wrote “impregnated”?


5 posted on 04/17/2015 12:12:23 PM PDT by ltc8k6
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To: Mrs. Don-o

And that’s why I keep it firmly in my pants.

Not having any STDs or children is entirely worth being celibate.


6 posted on 04/17/2015 12:12:36 PM PDT by wastedyears (I may be stupid, but at least I'm not Darwin Awards stupid.)
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To: ltc8k6
A modern teen wrote “impregnated”?

Are you surprised he didn't say 'with child'?

7 posted on 04/17/2015 12:13:14 PM PDT by wastedyears (I may be stupid, but at least I'm not Darwin Awards stupid.)
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To: PGR88

Oh really? Explain to me how I lost a home I bought BEFORE I was married to a divorce. I want to hear this...


8 posted on 04/17/2015 12:15:04 PM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (You can help: https://donate.tedcruz.org/c/FBTX0095/)
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To: ltc8k6

People slip into big-wordism when they’re scared or trying to impress their intended audience. I suspect this kid was doing both.


9 posted on 04/17/2015 12:16:09 PM PDT by Personal Responsibility (Changing the name of a thing doesn't change the thing. A liberal by any other name...)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

The order is date, marry, THEN have kids.

Dumba$$


10 posted on 04/17/2015 12:16:17 PM PDT by struggle
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To: PGR88

The “Sexual Revolution” is bad for all men and all women in the long run. But good for a certain kind of shallow selfish pr-— in the short run.


11 posted on 04/17/2015 12:16:42 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("Stone cold sober, as a matter of fact.")
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Frankly, even though she is right, this boy deserves an attorney also. That is the person who should set him straight.

Saying that the girl’s attorney should fill him in suggests that’s where he needs to get his information.

That is a severely flawed response.

The boy is very wrong to think he should be able to demand the girl get an abortion. He should be responsible. HIS attorney should fill him in.

Would this columnist also suggest a man get his advice from his wife’s divorce attorney? Good grief.


12 posted on 04/17/2015 12:19:37 PM PDT by DoughtyOne (The question, Jeb Bush? The answer: NO! Rove, is a devious propagandist & enemy of Conservatives!)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
I think men have always been aware of parental responsibilities if they get someone pregnant ... that's why so many of them are pro-abort, so they can make their little problem go away.

That said, if he's under 18 can he be held responsible?

13 posted on 04/17/2015 12:25:33 PM PDT by Lizavetta
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“The boy is very wrong to think he should be able to demand the girl get an abortion.”

Right, everyone knows only women have “reproductive freedom”.


14 posted on 04/17/2015 12:25:57 PM PDT by Boogieman
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To: DoughtyOne

I would not want to contribute one iota to the idea that this morally miniscule male should take an adversarial approach against his own child, which is what “lawyering up” entails.


15 posted on 04/17/2015 12:26:44 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("God bless the child that's got his own." - Billie Holiday)
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To: ltc8k6
A modern teen wrote “impregnated”?

Guess he didn't see the movie "knocked up"

16 posted on 04/17/2015 12:27:30 PM PDT by showme_the_Glory ((ILLEGAL: prohibited by law. ALIEN: Owing political allegiance to another country or government))
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Oh really? Explain to me how I lost a home I bought BEFORE I was married to a divorce. I want to hear this...


Did you OWN it free and clear before you were married?


17 posted on 04/17/2015 12:28:10 PM PDT by cuban leaf (The US will not survive the obama presidency. The world may not either.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Welcome to life, Dad.


18 posted on 04/17/2015 12:28:40 PM PDT by Vendome (Don't take life so seriously-you won't live through it anyway-Enjoy Yourself ala Louis Prima)
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It's better to have equal responsibility than equal irresponsibility.

Equal rights would mean that nobody can walk away from or abort their parental responsibility.

19 posted on 04/17/2015 12:29:19 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("God bless the child that's got his own." - Billie Holiday)
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To: Lizavetta

>>That said, if he’s under 18 can he be held responsible?

Oh yeah, I was teaching at a high school with a high teen pregnancy rate and those girls went after the boys as soon as they turned 18.


20 posted on 04/17/2015 12:29:22 PM PDT by struggle
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