Posted on 02/07/2015 8:01:13 PM PST by ransomnote
I am not sure it’s a good idea to take advice on this topic from Saturday night posters ;)
Let me guess... your a young metro sexual not looking for a family? Certainly not one of the new termed lumber sexual!
Why Women Are Rejecting “Perfect” Men?
I get rejected all the time.....
Life Science The Wife Hack
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsKB3uJpAVQ
Actually, until divorce is normalized between the sexes, marriage will continue to decrease. The current laws are outrageous.
This was the CELEBRITY CIPHER in the Daily Herald just few days ago. IIRC:
"The secret to a perfect marriage is to do everything your wife tells you. 'Yes dear,' and take a breath."
Attributed to Denzel Washington of all people.
Control is an illusion. Yet most of us, male and female alike, seek to control our lives. When the world or our job or our partner fails to live up to the expectations of our carefully crafted illusion .... we throw a temper tantrum, screaming at the storm that we can not control.
That might explain it. My father's generation was all right with the wives being homemakers and the husbands breadwinners. But, in my generation, most men grew up expecting their wives to bring home a paycheck. When their wives do stay home, those men aren't happy about it. (Of course, there are exceptions to the rule.)
lol says alot
Financially devastated almost always pertains to the man in the marriage and divorce you know. You seem to be an unusual case.
Oh, you married one of those, too, eh?
No matter what they say or even think, their biology leads women to actually a man, not another woman.
Nope. BTW I was including myself in that dig :)
You can count me as number two. So now there are two of us women here who fit that description. IOW, it's not unusual.
It is becoming more and more foolish for a man to marry, especially if he is economically upwardly mobile. He does well, maybe they both do well in careers and she can clean him out and take any minor kids away from him and strip him of his assets and sequester his income and it happens fairly often.
Well, my older generation (and me) were like your father. I hoped for a wife that took care of the home while I worked and provided. These days, who knows. I think that these changes are okay as long as both parties agree but they do not weather well for raising a family. Big difference.
These days, I really think that it is all about themselves, a bit selfish, looking for goods, little regards for feelings of their spouse. Things have really deteriorated to me, and it actually started a couple decades back.
Too many men and women met mid-life crises and became somebody else trying to regain youth I guess. Anyway, it seems to have expanded into today with mid-life being about 25 instead of 55. Don’t really know what to blame it on but it certainly changed our history and outlook.
They don’t know what they want because their education and intellectual reasoningtell them they want handsome but functionally effeminate men while their biology tells them they want a real man. They marry the Vogue iconic man and after a time are just plain unsatisfied. Something is terribly missing and they don’t ever figure it out.
“...drive to a lot of shopping malls.”
It has to be even with Doctor’s visits!
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