what kind of question is that? I never did that and neither did my kids.
You don’t know any thing about me. You started by calling me an idiot and blaming me for the cost of college.
You got the wrong person.
If parents want to do what they want with their money and make declarations refusing to help their kids to teach them a lesson, then do it, but don’t cry when you’re sitting n your own urine in a dayroom in a wheel chair while the attendant is waiting for shift change.
I hope the kids have made dad known that they will not support him if he is infirm or destitute in his old age. And don’t knock on the door with suitcase in hand.
You implied that all parents had a moral obligation to provide a college education for their children, and if they didn't that they deserved to be abandoned by their children in their old age.
Is that fair assessment of what you said?