If you’ve ever dealt with an alcoholic, drug addict, or simply a sociopath,
you’ll see this common behavior.
They will NOT allow you to have “boundaries” where you draw a line that they are not to cross. These can be personal space, privacy, etc.
If they detect a boundary, they will focus on it and violate it, and if you resist, YOU’RE the “bad guy” for being “intolerant” or “making a fuss”.
Good point