[Askwhy5times]

Well, if he already knows it, her apologizing and accepting responsibility won’t cause him to leave. He might use it against her later and destroy the marriage that way.

[trisham]

Why cast aspersions on the husband?

[GeronL]

she cheated.... but he might destroy the marriage? what?

[PapaBear3625]

Well, if he already knows it, her apologizing and accepting responsibility won’t cause him to leave. He might use it against her later and destroy the marriage that way.

She's the one who already destroyed the marriage. Whatever happens from this point is 100% her fault.