she cheated.... but he might destroy the marriage? what?
I was referring to a hypothetical situation where a poster claimed the husband likely already knew. Once that is out in the open, it is a potent weapon in the hand of the husband. Most couple fight sometimes. If he brought that up often instead of forgiving is wife, it would have a detrimental effect on the marriage. I am not blaming him. If this was my wife, I would leave the cheating b*tch.
Exactly, she already destroyed the marriage. She deserves anything that could happen as a result of confessing. She has thrown away her husband’s opportunity to be married for life to a woman who loves him. The least she can do is accept the consequences of her betrayal.