I’m sure if every word spoken by every member of my church were published, we could all find a sentence or two that could be used by someone who has never attended the church and knows nothing about it to assail the pastoral skills and anointing of my pastor, who is the most deeply devoted, uncompromising preacher of the Gospel I have ever known.
But see, you're turning my question (which you didn't answer) into an attack on your pastor, which it isn't. I think you're reacting too emotionally.
Again, don't you think it's overstating it to call those two role models? Aside from the fact that they had a child and then got married, why on earth are we even looking at celebrities as such?