But see, you're turning my question (which you didn't answer) into an attack on your pastor, which it isn't. I think you're reacting too emotionally.
Again, don't you think it's overstating it to call those two role models? Aside from the fact that they had a child and then got married, why on earth are we even looking at celebrities as such?
My point was that you are reacting to a pull quote from the article to judge the church and its pastor.
And, yes, calling those two “role models” is absurd.