You haven’t replied to any of the Graf advice you have been given, but I ccant get passed your mention of “other children.” Don’t those kids have a pediatrician? Why not just use the same doctor/practice?
Second...this really is nothing to be upset about. Your new baby needs medical attention and being prepared (w/a pediatrician lined up) is just a part of “getting ready” for your new arrival. Enjoy this special time...little ones don’t stay little for very long:)
Had a meeting after my rant.
Just moved here, no pedi yet. Not opposed to it, just opposed to the part where they tell my wife they won’t release our baby if I don’t give them a name.