A friend from college who was very smart vis-a-vis women told me a lesson I have never forgotten.
He said "ultimately, the women control the pickup process. Watch for them to give you a signal and then and only then approach them." The signal might be a demure glance or even a slight smile...something barely noticeable (they require plausible deniability).
The women on this thread might enlighten us on this.
Is that how guys think? Stop it!
I am a super friendly person (when I am not in recluse mode), and guys read into it way too much - unfortunately I get much unwanted attention.
We are here to do justly, love mercy and walk humbly with our Lord.