Posted on 09/08/2013 8:36:15 AM PDT by rickmichaels
I would never ask my husband for his passwords. I have never thought of giving him mine either. Just haven’t thought of it. Of course, my whole life is not on my phone.
Do the couples mentioned text each other at the dinner table or in bed? I guess I’m an old codger.
“I would never ask my husband for his passwords. I have never thought of giving him mine either.”
I was at lunch with a guy I’ve known 10 years. His phone rang. He said, “Hello? No, I’m with Gen.blather. No, I’m with Gen.blather.” He handed me the phone and I said, “Hello?” There was a long silence and I asked again and asked who it was and a woman said, “Brenda.” It was his wife. Apparently she had read something he’d written six months ago and assumed he was seeing a woman at lunch. I’ve worked so closely with this guy I know he’s not fooling around. He says she goes through all his stuff regularly and has all his passwords. He’s asked people not to send him stuff like links to nude photos.
I don’t know my husband’s passwords either. Of course, I keep forgetting my own.
I don’t know that I’d ever ask for a password. If I trusted him, rightly or wrongly, that would just be it. I’m not married, so I don’t know if that would make a difference.
Back around the ‘turn of the century’, the home computer was a laptop which I basically used for business.
I told my then wife that she was welcome to use it and set it up so she could have her own password etc (she was computer literate (at least workwise) and I was skeptical) but figured I didn’t care or want to know what she may be doing on the computer. She was an adult, after all.
SHE wondered what I was trying to hide????
Go figure!!!
I’ve yet to meet a woman I would trust enough to share my passwords with. I guess that’s probably one of the reasons I am unmarried :)
Seriously??? This guy sounds like he’s Grade A pu**y-whipped!
No woman is worth having to deal with that much insecurity.
No offense to your friend.
Hell, anybody can have my sister’s password to anything. Here it is” ‘QWERTY1234’
“No woman is worth having to deal with that much insecurity.”
She’s always out helping him on the ranch. He’s got pictures of her totting sandbags. She’s got a CCW and carries. She’s going through menopause. She has a hot flash and he sprints to his airconditioned backhoe.
Never thought of it, either. Put me in the ‘sharing passwords is creepy’ category if it’s meant to establish an intimacy, or assure fidelity. Strikes me as more than creepy, actually.
I don’t believe in sharing that type of information, especially if you’re just dating.
That said now that we are older we have both created a file for the other of our passwords in case one of us dies or gets very ill.
We have heard of friends that had a spouse die and there were things like insurance websites, financial websites where the spouse couldn’t get in to pay bills. Oftentimes they had to provide a death certificate to even be able to pay their bills.
Also with things like social media there may be a lot of friends that the spouse knows from school, jobs etc. that the surviving spouse doesn’t know and it’s nice to have a password to get in. Also FB will not get rid of a spouse’s account unless you have a password to get in to take it off active status. I’ve seen where people die and all kinds of things are written on there and there’s nothing the surviving spouse can do because they can’t get into the FB or whatever.
So we did put a file together where all those passwords are filed and we both have access to it for that reason.
Just an idea for other FReepers. Take care and thanks for posting this.
Great advice. Thanks!
Don’t give anybody your password you wouldn’t give your ATM pin number to.
Was on a bidness trip with an associate, sharing a room. His wife called nightly and asked to speak with me to make sure he didn’t have a woman in the room.
What I thought most odd was that he didn’t see anything strange about this.
LOL! Uh, DUH!
You’re welcome! Thanks :-)
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