If they couldn’t “have me” within 2-3 dates, I was dumped. Never mind all the slapping and “get off of me” I endured while dating. They seemed to have grown a few extra arms at the end of our date! All this free sex and everyone doing everyone has put such a crimp on a once innocent dating ritual.
Instead of dating with strangers why not go out and do activities you enjoy and meet men there? Become friends first. I have dated women in the past but all three long term GF's I have ever had, we met through same hobbies or other similar interest and we were always friends at first.
A guy I know volunteers at a local state park a few Saturday's each month. Met a woman there doing the same thing, got to know her after a while working together and now they are together.
Well, I don’t date anymore. Prior to, I have been set up by friends/family. I figured it would be safe since they know the guy.
I was wrong. As of becoming friends first, men in this generation do not want to take the time to do so.
Funny story. I went out to lunch yesterday, BY MYSELF, which I have never done before. I met a man sitting next to me and we just started chatting.
Long story short, after talking to this man (whom I would never think of as my type, my fault), I found him to have values closely related to mine.
He asked for my number so we could go out for lunch/dinner and before I agreed to do so I told him I am available, but celibate. Told him I have no problem to start a friendship; however, he knew exactly where I stood.
I even told him if he was looking for sex, I was not his girl. He laughed, I laughed....and he asked for my number anyway.
Now it could be the “chase” that may excite him, however, I am absolutely concrete in my beliefs.
The reason I decided to exchange numbers with him? He wasn’t trying to pick me up. We just happened to sit next to each other and started yapping.
Any stranger I speak with now a days, I let them know upfront, of course when appropriate, who I am and where I stand.
No way IN HELL would I EVER date a lib. Most men and women, when they first meet talk about themselves.
I go right into my politics. I need to know who you are and where you stand. VERY off putting to a lot of people, but guess what....I don’t give a flyin you know what.