I will be turning 42 this July. I have never been married and have no kids.
For the past 5 years, I have taken myself OUT of the “dating game” (now a days, it’s more like the “sex games”) and have been celibate.
If I am meant to find the one, He will guide me. Until then, I will remain the happy gal (for the most part) because I no longer live with the pressures or manipulation of men trying to bed me.
If they couldn’t “have me” within 2-3 dates, I was dumped. Never mind all the slapping and “get off of me” I endured while dating. They seemed to have grown a few extra arms at the end of our date! All this free sex and everyone doing everyone has put such a crimp on a once innocent dating ritual.
The NAGS have ruined dating for all girls. If you’re not a slut, then something is wrong with you.
To them, I’m one effed up gal!!! The NAGS can take their misery and stds and shove em you know where.
IMO in the last century the war on prostitution has created a problem. The lack of affordable, quality prostitution has made guys go for the gusto more often and earlier due to pent up sex release that would have been otherwise satiated by a professional. Flame on.
If they couldn’t “have me” within 2-3 dates, I was dumped. Never mind all the slapping and “get off of me” I endured while dating. They seemed to have grown a few extra arms at the end of our date! All this free sex and everyone doing everyone has put such a crimp on a once innocent dating ritual.
Instead of dating with strangers why not go out and do activities you enjoy and meet men there? Become friends first. I have dated women in the past but all three long term GF's I have ever had, we met through same hobbies or other similar interest and we were always friends at first.
A guy I know volunteers at a local state park a few Saturday's each month. Met a woman there doing the same thing, got to know her after a while working together and now they are together.