Sad, but don’t blame her a bit. Wonder how many years she was engaged hoping that he’d grow up? Seem to remember a Twilight Zone episode with a similar theme.
Don't flame me too hard but she should have NEVER married him.
Even if you have known a person for a short time you should never go in to a relationship with the idea of changing them after the marriage, or even while courting. Ain't gonna happen. IMHO too many women go after men who need fixing. Maybe the mothering instinct in them. I could be wrong.
Leave and go find a better fit.
yes--and in the Twilight Zone episode, the mother was already dead, and the groom was still overly attached...