[r9etb]

she is very smart, but he isn’t going to marry her, which is a big reason why I’m against it. He is just using her, and someone needs to show her some respect. It will be me.

Sounds like you've already made up your mind, then -- why bother asking us?

FWIW, I agree with the concept that you're likely to be pushing: no girls sleeping in his bed while he's in it too....

As a practical matter, you probably know you're going to have to deal with the unpleasant responses from both your son and your wife (no matter what she's telling you now).

[Retired Greyhound]

I do anticipate my wife to get cold feet when I lay down the law, but I’m not worried about that. I have to do what is right.

I only asked FR for my own validation, and I have it.

Thank you all.