We both try to avoid annoying each other needlessly.
I try to listen better and she makes sure I am listening to her... (hey, wait a minute!)
LOL she is doing better then I did at first then.
I never realized that it was necessary to explain not only what you wanted but how high it was on the priority list and why you wanted it.
Make sense, he is wonderful but a mind reader he is not.
As to what you want...well she sounds like a smart girl she is likely getting the information she needs out of you in subtle ways.
Me, being the dummie that I am, I just tend to ask out right.