Before I think about this seriously, here's the answer where I make a joke of it.
Well, for us to tell whether he was going to far, we have to know what temptation he faced. This post begs for a picture. At least, we beg for a picture.
I hope that wasn't too crude a joke. The serious side of it is that from a guy's perspective, there are things that can make guarding our eyes difficult. I was once at a class where one of the lady engineers was wearing a very low-cut top. That wouldn't be a problem, but she also had an unusual name and a thick accent. I could never understand her name when she spoke it. I kept trying to look down to read her name tag, but every time I looked down, I was afraid that she'd think I was looking at her cleavage.
I've occasionally had the same problem with a necklace or a strange design on a shirt. In neither case is the woman wearing anything remotely immodest. It's just that something distracts me and draws my eyes from where they need to be. When I've encountered the situation, I've tried to deal with it by not looking at her at all.
I'm sure that you weren't wearing anything immodest or distracting, and if you perceived his eye movements to be something less innocent than what I've described in my situation, then I believe you. It's unfortunate that things went that way, but I don't see a way of salvaging anything. If he wanted you to call him, I don't see anything wrong with your not calling. If he calls you, I think you'd be fine saying that you don't feel like dating him. I don't think you have to address the issue with him.
Bill
No, Bill, your joke did not go too far—it was tres funny (’cept to justify a picture for the menfolk I would have to know how to photoshop Bridgett/Brooke’s(?) bod with my face... lol)
The other mental picture you created might be even funnier——uh,oh, the phone is r-i-n-g-i-n-g as I type this—the man with the roving eyes? I am NOT going to go and answer that——Imagine Bill innocently trying to read the lady engineer’s name tag while assiduously trying to avoid giving her the wrong impression...I love that-—it’s too funny!
As for me, I am more about being attractively dressed than provocatively dressed...but, be warned, it is my version of “attractive”. I tend to dress a little differently than most women I see who are close to me in age... :)