The first step is to get to know who you are and what makes you tick. Become self aware by asking yourself some hard questions about your life.
Also what helps is if you have overwhelming feelings of desperation, or depression, talking to a therapist is good, as long as you don't spend the rest of your life in therapy.
517 posted on 03/09/2006 11:30:34 PM PST by Maximus_Ridiculousness
(R.I.P. Edgar Stiles :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :()