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Dating After Divorce: Venturing into The Dark Abyss
www.elitestv.com ^ | Dr. Hu Fleming

Posted on 10/01/2005 7:36:14 AM PDT by teldon30

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121 posted on 10/01/2005 9:23:47 PM PDT by prognostigaator
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To: Petronski

I lost my right side hubcaps. Ah, hell, the car has 320,000 miles on it. Getting new hubcaps, even boneyard, would blow my $10 monthly maintenance allotment.


122 posted on 10/01/2005 9:23:57 PM PDT by Fierce Allegiance (Dry white toast, please, ma'am.)
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To: LucyT



Nah...Think positive!!!

You NEVER know ;o)

MM


123 posted on 10/01/2005 9:25:29 PM PDT by motormouth (Good Grief!!!!!)
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To: Dashing Dasher
My suggestion - bring a book - maybe even a DVD player with a good movie. Or... bring your own car and RUN.

I excused myself as quickly as possible. (I live quite a ways out of town and always bring my own car) *chuckle* What's worse.....is getting a call the next day and having them tell me what a great time they had. Arrrrgh!

124 posted on 10/01/2005 9:35:09 PM PDT by LaineyDee (Don't mess with Texas wimmen!)
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To: ValerieUSA
Way too much credit given to single women here. We are not so itimidating.

That is probably true, but in my case, the problem is this: I see a beautiful woman who's attracted to me, and I get that "Aw shucks, she can do better" mentality. It's really not insecurity, but honesty. I know that sounds like I'm parsing words, but "a man's got to know his limitations."

But what I always come back to is this: "Why don't you let her make her own decision about it!? Give her a chance to get to know you."

125 posted on 10/01/2005 9:35:22 PM PDT by scott7278 (You are stuck on stupid!)
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To: carlr
Huh? I guess I missed that somehow.

He didn't say anything about quality.

126 posted on 10/01/2005 9:45:20 PM PDT by scott7278 (You are stuck on stupid!)
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To: Fierce Allegiance
...my $10 monthly maintenance allotment.

Ahhhh, the Vic! Indestructible (except the interior door panels).

127 posted on 10/01/2005 9:47:18 PM PDT by Petronski (I love Cyborg!)
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To: Petronski
except the interior door panels

Yep. That car is the best $750 I've spent in the last decade.

128 posted on 10/01/2005 9:54:21 PM PDT by Fierce Allegiance (Dry white toast, please, ma'am.)
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To: Army Air Corps; Petronski; LucyT; Victoria Delsoul
Also, all of us guys will be required to wear "candy-a$$ monkey suits" (i.e. red velvet tuxedos).

You'll have to put it on yourself...over my dead body...over my pajamaheeden uniform!
129 posted on 10/01/2005 9:54:34 PM PDT by The Spirit Of Allegiance (SAVE THE BRAINFOREST! Boycott the RED Dead Tree Media & NUKE the DNC Class Action Temper Tantrum!)
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To: scott7278

You were worried about shopping for a vacuum cleaner?


130 posted on 10/01/2005 9:55:08 PM PDT by tuliptree76 (I'm not sure what I want. But I'll know it when I see it!)
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To: tuliptree76

Well, I guess not, but it's not something that someone usually does on Saturday night (it sure beat sitting at home, though).


131 posted on 10/01/2005 9:57:42 PM PDT by scott7278 (You are stuck on stupid!)
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To: ValerieUSA

Val, WORTH REPEATING:

Way too much credit given to single women here. We are not so itimidating. We have cartloads of insecurities and will compromise important dreams too easily and then distrust our own judgement... or I do anyway.

Thimk of all the mistakes being made by single women that are undermining our country's social and economic structures.. unwed motherhood, living with bums and predators and increasing drug and alcohol abuse.

Don't be afraid.. but, please, be careful.

////////////////////

And the Man needs to muster up the testosterone to approach the girl--and SHE needs to give him some sort of sign that it is OK to do so...extended eye contact and a smile mean "hi, the door is open, come into my space and talk"


132 posted on 10/01/2005 10:01:28 PM PDT by The Spirit Of Allegiance (SAVE THE BRAINFOREST! Boycott the RED Dead Tree Media & NUKE the DNC Class Action Temper Tantrum!)
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To: scott7278
Well, I guess not, but it's not something that someone usually does on Saturday night (it sure beat sitting at home, though).

True. I'm used to FReeping on Saturday nights. ;-)

133 posted on 10/01/2005 10:04:07 PM PDT by tuliptree76 (I'm not sure what I want. But I'll know it when I see it!)
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To: Blurblogger
Oh man, I don't get this:

Also, truth be told, if we’re completely candid with ourselves, we’ve been spoiled and pampered, accustom to having someone take care of us, make sure that our socks matched, that we didn’t embarrass ourselves at that party. Sex was a given, no need to shower, shave, appear desirable, or even interested. And definitely no need to think about her feelings, wants, desires, or idiosyncrasies on a second by second basis.

So, why on earth getting divorced? He had it all.

134 posted on 10/01/2005 10:04:37 PM PDT by Victoria Delsoul
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To: Army Air Corps; Petronski

Does the cigarette lighter work?


135 posted on 10/01/2005 10:07:52 PM PDT by scott7278 (You are stuck on stupid!)
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To: scott7278

Sure, if I hadn't tossed it out the window...


136 posted on 10/01/2005 10:09:46 PM PDT by Army Air Corps (Four fried chickens and a coke)
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To: Victoria Delsoul; Petronski; cyborg

He neglected her, took her for granted, focused on himself rather than her. He drove her way through selfishness and ignorance. Courtship should be for a lifetime, not a sales pitch that ends after a march down the aisle--that's false advertising, from the standpoint of a girl's emotions and normal nesting drive.

As in flowers, candy and nights on the town should continue throughout the marriage.

(I just haven't found a girl willing to spend that much on me yet! Petronski, you lucky dawg!)


137 posted on 10/01/2005 10:10:57 PM PDT by The Spirit Of Allegiance (SAVE THE BRAINFOREST! Boycott the RED Dead Tree Media & NUKE the DNC Class Action Temper Tantrum!)
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To: scott7278

That's where I plug in my XM radio...channel 74: bluesville!


138 posted on 10/01/2005 10:11:34 PM PDT by Petronski (I love Cyborg!)
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To: Army Air Corps

Fix the cigarette lighter.


139 posted on 10/01/2005 10:12:40 PM PDT by scott7278 (You are stuck on stupid!)
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To: Petronski

I need to pick up the soundtrack sometime.


140 posted on 10/01/2005 10:14:22 PM PDT by scott7278 ("He hates these cans! Stay away from the cans!")
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