It's been so long since I was in college, I didn't even think about that!
The one time I got married, the groom wasn't even there!
We went together to get the license, but he had to go back to work. So I went to see my mom's best friend (a notary), who placed a McDonalds' napkin on my head, handed me a plastic rose and had me repeat the vows for the both of us.
Needless to say, it wasn't very romantic.
Wassahuhgh?? No way... Had to go back to work???
Now... I'm as committed to my career as the next guy... but THAT is a little over the top. :-)
Oh, my! That's.... quite a story. Next time go all out, ok ;-)
I'm not very demanding and I can be flexible, as I consider the wedding to be much less important than the marriage, but there's gonna be a church, and I'll be wearing a dress, and my dad will walk me down the aisle. That's all that matters - flowers, who cares, I can't imagine inviting more than forty people on my side and half that's immediate family.
Uh, was it even legit?