Posted on 03/25/2005 8:58:36 AM PST by StreetAngel
I have been in a coma in my life. I was 16 and had a terrible car wreck. I was in a coma for 2 1/2 months in Redding California. I remember the first of this occasion. They also thought I was dead. I was in the morgue and I tried yelling and screaming and noone heard. Their was a man God Bless, That for some reason or another saw a movement and then retook my stats. I had a barley heart beat. They then rushed me care flight to Redding Memorial. The point is: Even though Mrs. Schiavo is not communicating as we do. She is alive! From what I see broadcast on tv. She as I did is screaming in motion for life. Just because she is not aleart as you and I. Trust me she is very aware. She knows what the Judges and government are doing and it is MURDER! I ask please you who judge her life. LET HER LIVE!!!! I have a life after my situation I have had children and gotten my Diploma from High school and even taken a few collage courses. If as they suspected I was dead and they would have killed me(letting me lay there with no help). I would never have had the oppertunity to do this. It is Gods! rule to take her or let her remain not ours. If we are able to help her in any way to live it is OUR DUTY!
You just signed up today to tell us this story?
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Be nice and thank him for what he has done so far. I believe that some of what was said about the Florida Republican senators before they had even voted (by RT) may have forced them into the wrong vote.
What is wrong with this story? I think it is inspirational.
No. He signed up last year to tell us this story.
" I had a barley heart beat"
I had a wheat pulse rate once.
How kind of you.
StreetAngel
Since Mar 25, 2005
What year is it where you are?
Are you on a barley heart beat, too?
If you click on his screen name it says Member Since March 25, 2005. That IS this year, is it not?
It must have been oatmost imperceptible!
In some places it's 2006.
Maybe grammarman was in a coma for a year. If they come out, do they return to current time or do they pick up right where they left off? Maybe it's 2004 for him.
I'll take this story with a grain of salt.
I grew up in the house where my brother was on his back in his bed for almost 33 years, in the same corner of his room, under the same window, beside the same yellow walls. Oliver was blind, mute. His legs were twisted. He didn't have the strength to lift his head nor the intelligence to learn anything.
Today I am an English teacher, and each time I introduce my class to the play about Helen Keller, "The Miracle Worker," I tell my students about Oliver. One day, during my first year teaching, a boy in the last row raised his hand and said, "Oh, Mr. de Vinck. You mean he was a vegetable."
I stammered for a few seconds. My family and I fed Oliver. We changed his diapers, hung his clothes and bed linen on the basement line in winter, and spread them out white and clean on the lawn in the summer. I always liked to watch the grasshoppers jump on the pillowcases.
We bathed Oliver. Tickled his chest to make him laugh. Sometimes we left the radio on in his room. We pulled the shade down over his bed in the morning to keep the sun from burning his tender skin. We listened to him laugh as we watched television downstairs. We listened to him rock his arms up and down to make the bed squeak. We listened to him cough in the middle of the night.
"Well, I guess you could call him a vegetable. I called him Oliver, my brother. You would have liked him."
One October day in 1946, when my mother was pregnant with Oliver, her second son, she was overcome by fumes from a leaking coal-burning stove. My oldest brother was sleeping in his crib, which was quite high off the ground so the gas didn't affect him, My father pulled them outside, where my mother revived quickly.
On April 20, 1947, Oliver was born. A healthy looking, plump, beautiful boy.
One afternoon, a few months later, my mother brought Oliver to a window. She held him there in the sun, the bright good sun, and there Oliver looked and looked directly into the sunlight, which was the first moment my mother realized that Oliver was blind. My parents, the true heroes of this story, learned with the passing months, that blindness was only part of the problem. So they brought Oliver to Mt. Sinai Hospital in New York for tests to determine the extent of his condition.
The doctor said that he wanted to make it very clear to both my mother and father that there was absolutely nothing that could be done for Oliver. He didn't want my parents to grasp at false hope. "You could place him in an institution," he said.
"But," my parents replied, "he is our son. We will take Oliver home of course."
The good doctor answered, "Then take him home and love him."
Oliver grew to the size of a 10-year-old. He had a big chest, a large head. His hands and feet were those of a five-year-old, small and soft. We'd wrap a box of baby cereal for him at Christmas and place it under the tree; pat his head with a damp cloth in the middle of a July heat wave. His baptismal certificate hung on the wall above his head. A bishop came to the house and confirmed him.
Even now, five years after his death from pneumonia on March 12, 1980, Oliver still remains the weakest, most helpless human being I ever met, and yet he was one of the most powerful human beings I ever met. He could do absolutely nothing except breathe, sleep, eat, and yet he was responsible for action, love, courage, insight. When I was small my mother would say, "Isn't it wonderful that you can see?" And once she said, "When you go to heaven, Oliver will run to you, embrace you, and the first thing he will say is 'Thank you."' I remember, too, my mother explaining to me that we were blessed with Oliver in ways that were not clear to her at first.
So often parents are faced with a child who is severely retarded, but who is also hyperactive, demanding or wild, who needs constant care. So many people have little choice but to place their child in an Institution. We were fortunate that Oliver didn't need us to be in his room all day. He never knew what his condition was. We were blessed with his presence, a true presence of peace.
When I was in my early 20s, I met a girl and fell in love. After a few months I brought her home to meet my family. When my mother went to the kitchen to prepare dinner, I asked the girl, "Would you like to see Oliver?" for I had told her about my brother.
"No," she answered.
Soon after, I met Roe, a lovely girl. She asked me the names of my brothers and sisters. She loved children. I thought she was wonderful. I brought her home after a few months to meet my family. Soon it was time for me to feed Oliver. I remember sheepishly asking Roe if she'd like to see him. "Sure," she said.
I sat at Oliver's bedside as Roe watched over my shoulder. I gave him his first spoonful, his second. "Can I do that?" Roe asked with ease, with freedom, with compassion, so I gave her the bowl and she fed Oliver one spoonful at a time.
The power of the powerless. Which girl would you marry? Today Roe and I have three children.
[Four years ago Christopher de Vinck, thinking "it might speak to people, this message of hope, this message of triumph," submitted the above article to The Wall Street Journal which ran it on April 10,1985. The response was immediate, people round the country writing in and telephoning, sharing their own experiences with a son or daughter who did not fit the norm. Last year de Vinck published The Power of the Powerless: A Brother's Legacy of Love (Doubleday) in which he shares further insights gained from Oliver who "was physically and mentally retarded, but he was not spiritually retarded." He includes stories of Lauren, Anthony, and Paul, told with powerful simplicity by their parents whom he visited in their homes.
Christopher de Vinck is Chairman of the English Department of a rural New Jersey high school and a doctoral candidate in education administration at Teachers College, Columbia University. -- ED.]
(Reprinted in Sunrise, June/July 1989, with permission of The Wall Street Journal Ó 1989 Dow Jones & Company, Inc. All rights reserved.)
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These are human beings, for God's sake!!
Thank you.
"PVS" is simply the euphemism they use to prettify their judgment that Terri Schiavo's life is an excessive burden for them to bear, and she must be killed to lighten the load. By using the term "PVS" they are able to rationalize their decision no to listen to her desperate pleas that she is alive.
No he signed up last year to tell this story. '(/sarcasm)'
Well, PVS means she won't recover to a certain state.
I've got an idea. He suffers from a chronic disease. Let's just throw him away.
And if she did, what is that to you?
What prompted you to make your first post? It was likely nothing nearly so weighty.
God bless her for coming forward and sharing. I hope she ignores the death cult demons and their protests.
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