I wont fold, and will rarely Iron.
I have no qualms about Hauling it down and Up, and the actual cycling.....
i would say it is probably 75-25% with xshub doing 75% of the ironing. the job i hate most is putting stuff away. i despise it. i would do it all if someone would just bring it down (now the routine is for the kids to shower it down from the upstairs landing, we have cathedral ceilings in the fam room, which is laundry central, and they will dump it over and xs2pup has a field day dodging it)and then put it away. i will sort and do it and then i am having them ALL do folding now. including xsboy. he tries to absent himself from the vicinity if at all possible.
The space available requires folding, and I won't iron either unless I absolutely have to.
Had to do it while in the military, and burned my fingers a few times because of recalcitrant pocket flaps.