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If you're a grade schooler or a teenager and are accosted by a bully, fight back even if it gets you in trouble. That's the only solution to bullying
1 posted on 05/02/2023 7:08:20 AM PDT by Fiji Hill
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The victim is s the new age bully who needs to be punished, clearly. He is probably racist or transphobic.


2 posted on 05/02/2023 7:11:37 AM PDT by AndyJackson
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a few days suspension is a tiny price to pay for future years of freedom from torment in school - and a lifetime of self-respect.


3 posted on 05/02/2023 7:11:39 AM PDT by PGR88
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Good on this kid for doing the right thing.


4 posted on 05/02/2023 7:11:39 AM PDT by OKSooner ("Oh, the mad fools!")
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My dad’s rule I passed to my boys.

You start a fight, I’ll bust your butt.
You run from a fight, I’ll bust your butt.


5 posted on 05/02/2023 7:11:59 AM PDT by bleach (If I agreed with you, we would both be wrong.)
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There was an older, bigger kid on my block that picked on me all the time. I hid a billy club on the side of my house because I knew he would come back around. Sure enough he did. I grabbed the billy club and nailed him on his elbow as he was riding off on his bike. Cried like the little pussy he was.

He never touched me again.


6 posted on 05/02/2023 7:15:34 AM PDT by unixfox (Abolish Slavery, Repeal the 16th Amendment)
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... and fighting back against a bully is precisely what the father is doing against the school administrators.

And it's important to personalize the bullies. It's not "the school" that took no action other than suspend the kid for defending himself, it's the principal, the vice-principal and the individual teachers that took no action to stop the bullying. Then by suspending the kid for defending himself, they clearly identified themselves as bullies, too.

7 posted on 05/02/2023 7:16:36 AM PDT by glennaro (Never give up ... never give in ... never surrender ... and enjoy every minute of doing so.)
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And if the Congress would reverse the theory of “qualified immunity” created out of thin air by the Supreme Court, every last one of these scumbags should be SUED into Bankruptcy and Homelessness.


8 posted on 05/02/2023 7:17:29 AM PDT by eyeamok
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Dad tried to convince me that was the solution when I was in little league baseball.

I understood intellectually, but lacked the confidence until Jr. High.....it worked!

10 posted on 05/02/2023 7:17:50 AM PDT by G Larry ( DEI = Division + Erroneous Indoctrination)
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“For years the school has failed Drew,” she continues.

WTF didn’t the parents do something years ago? They need to take responsibility for this. That being said, good job, Drew.


11 posted on 05/02/2023 7:19:35 AM PDT by peggybac (My will is what I wanted. God's will is what I got.)
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Drew should have pounded him another three or four times after the slug started screaming. That would have made the message indelible.


12 posted on 05/02/2023 7:19:46 AM PDT by stevem
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“will result in conversations between Allison and the school that will lead to them actually taking action against this bully and others.”

The time for “conversations” is long over. Those “conversations” did no good and the harassment was allowed to go on unimpeded - even with good evidence.

I’d get a lawyer at this point. The school, school district, the bus company and driver - and principal need to all be named and sued, personally, for what they allowed to be done to this child - especially as I’m sure the school has a “no bullying” policy - and the #1 tenant of any school is to ensure the safety of its students.


13 posted on 05/02/2023 7:21:14 AM PDT by Bon of Babble (What did Socialists use before Candles?..... Electricity)
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Three punches is not “beating up”. I was in numerous fights as a kid, three punches is the warmup.


14 posted on 05/02/2023 7:21:41 AM PDT by DaxtonBrown (away.)
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yes indeed.


15 posted on 05/02/2023 7:27:09 AM PDT by ronniesgal (friends don't let friends be Kardashians)
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I agree.


17 posted on 05/02/2023 7:30:24 AM PDT by ought-six (Multiculturalism is national suicide, and political correctness is the cyanide capsule. )
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Public schools need significant competition, which will force them to close and be replaced by a superior range of options.


21 posted on 05/02/2023 7:35:27 AM PDT by 1Old Pro
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Sorry, mom, this is nothing new. Now if your boy was in the girls bathroom at the time, the school would be all over this.


22 posted on 05/02/2023 7:37:14 AM PDT by bigbob
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Appeasement NEVER works. Period.

The only way to stop a bully is to give it back twice as hard, or how ever much it takes to stop him or her.

24 posted on 05/02/2023 7:37:58 AM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith….)
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I’ve had to clobber bullies on more than one occasion, but never the same one twice. A solid right cross to the jaw is a tremendous attitude adjuster.


25 posted on 05/02/2023 7:41:35 AM PDT by Disambiguator
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I told my kids that if they were ever attacked, they could do what they needed to do to get out of the situation.

If they saw someone else getting attacked, same thing.

But GOD help them if I find out they ever STARETED the fight, because then they’d have me to deal with as well.


26 posted on 05/02/2023 7:42:23 AM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith….)
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What do you do about a female bully that terrorizes a whole school and whose foster Mother is a school counselor? Kick their butt. I love my granddaughter! Yeah, they went to court, the bully and her protector were a no-show.


27 posted on 05/02/2023 7:45:28 AM PDT by DJ MacWoW (The Fed Gov is not one ring to rule them all)
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