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VA benefits for Widows
Just me | 2/22/2026 | self

Posted on 02/22/2026 6:13:22 PM PST by Pocketdoor

I had a friend that "suddenly" passed away at the age of 53. He was an Iraq 1, combat vet, 82nd Air Borne Artillery. I'm gonna escort his wife to a VA appointment. Is there any benefits that you can think of that she can get? He left a 20 and 14 year sons.


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1 posted on 02/22/2026 6:13:22 PM PST by Pocketdoor
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To: Pocketdoor

Did he retire from the military with 20 or more years service ?


2 posted on 02/22/2026 6:15:35 PM PST by Newbomb Turk (earch )
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To: Pocketdoor

The GI Bill is one he might have paid into and it is transferrable to children.


3 posted on 02/22/2026 6:18:43 PM PST by T.B. Yoits
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He told me he must have killed 100’s up to 1000’s of the enemy.


4 posted on 02/22/2026 6:20:40 PM PST by Pocketdoor
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Or was your friend receiving any kind of disability from the VA ? If so, his wife may qualify for those payments going forward if he had service related medical issues.


5 posted on 02/22/2026 6:20:57 PM PST by Newbomb Turk (earch )
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No, he did not retire... he just spent 2 years Active Duty, with combat in Gulf War 1. And got out..


6 posted on 02/22/2026 6:23:30 PM PST by Pocketdoor
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The 14 year old should be entitled to some decent SS payments. Be sure to look into that.


7 posted on 02/22/2026 6:24:42 PM PST by Free Deplorable
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Va.gov is pretty comprehensive. Put in some time.


8 posted on 02/22/2026 6:25:55 PM PST by Owen
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To: Pocketdoor

Much depends on whether he had a VA disability before he died, and whether that disability contributed to his death.

Those can also be adjudged retroactively.


9 posted on 02/22/2026 6:26:51 PM PST by Mariner (War Criminal #18)
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To: Newbomb Turk

He had tinnitus, but I think 0%. His kids do get a college waiver in CA because of that.


10 posted on 02/22/2026 6:27:18 PM PST by Pocketdoor
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If he served for at least 6 years total, not combat, I believe she can still access things like a VA commasarry.

That’s not much but it is something.

I’ve been wrong before


11 posted on 02/22/2026 6:27:48 PM PST by Fai Mao ( )
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To: Pocketdoor
I'm sorry for your loss. Losing a friend and veteran like that must be tough. Since your friend was a Gulf War (Iraq 1) combat veteran with the 82nd Airborne Artillery, his surviving spouse and children may qualify for several VA benefits, depending on factors like the cause of death (meaning if it's determined to be service-connected), family income/net worth, and other eligibility criteria. The VA appointment is a great step, as they can assess specifics and help with applications. It's best to confirm with a VA representative or a Veterans Service Officer (VSO) whether potential benefits are available under current VA guidelines, as eligibility isn't guaranteed.

The most important thing to start with, if not already claimed, is the burial allowance (up to $2,000 if service-connected death, or $300 otherwise). He may also be eligible for a headstone/marker, presidential memorial certificate, and flag. There are also other possible reimbursements for funeral costs.

If possible, bring these key documents to the appointment: Service records like his DD-214 (discharge papers), proof of marriage (marriage certificate), birth certificates or other proofs for the 20-year-old and 14-year-old sons (including their Social Security numbers), the death certificate, and any recent income statements for the household. Having these ready will help speed up the process.

At the appointment, ask specifically about service connection for the cause of death. Even if it doesn't seem obvious right away, Gulf War veterans (including those from Iraq 1) have expanded presumptive conditions under VA rules and the PACT Act. These cover things like certain undiagnosed illnesses with cardiovascular signs/symptoms, respiratory issues, or various cancers potentially linked to exposures like burn pits or other Gulf War hazards. If the death might relate to something like heart problems, sudden cardiac events, or another condition that could be presumed service-connected, push for a thorough review—it could make a big difference in unlocking benefits.

12 posted on 02/22/2026 6:29:21 PM PST by Mr.Unique (My boss wants me to sign up for a 401K. No way I'm running that far! )
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To: Pocketdoor

Thank you for helping her. God bless you.


13 posted on 02/22/2026 6:47:54 PM PST by Cowgirl of Justice
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Thank you, Good info.
And all the Good info from everyone else too.


14 posted on 02/22/2026 6:52:45 PM PST by Pocketdoor
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The widow should make several copies of the DD214. Besides the VA, a VA cemetery will also require the DD214, and of military honors, the VFW, American Legion, and several other veterans organization provide that. The Post Office for the flag also requires the DD214 - the flag is free.


15 posted on 02/22/2026 7:11:18 PM PST by Aggie65 (airline)
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To: Pocketdoor

Depending on what he died of she may be entitled to something from the VA since he did not retire nor does it sound like he was 100% disabled.

Start here and read this webpage. It will give you a good start

https://www.hillandponton.com/entitled-va-survivors-benefits/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23453376866&gbraid=0AAAAAD90H7DZhy00oM8AvAFBxg9Egf0XH&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI4P2z99jukgMV67cDAB1ffB5KEAAYASAAEgKPA_D_BwE


16 posted on 02/22/2026 7:45:57 PM PST by VeniVidiVici (Burma Shave)
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To: Pocketdoor

The VA doesn’t base benefits on a scorecard.


17 posted on 02/22/2026 7:48:36 PM PST by Vermont Lt
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The VA is pretty good about info these days

Food for thought

What was cause of death ?

https://www.va.gov/resources/the-pact-act-and-your-va-benefits/

We’ve added more than 20 burn pit and other toxic exposure presumptive conditions based on the PACT Act. This change expands benefits for Gulf War era and post-9/11 Veterans.

These cancers are now presumptive:

Brain cancer
Gastrointestinal cancer of any type
Glioblastoma
Head cancer of any type
Kidney cancer
Lymphoma of any type
Melanoma
Neck cancer of any type
Pancreatic cancer
Reproductive cancer of any type
Respiratory (breathing-related) cancer of any type
Learn more about presumptive cancers related to burn pits

These illnesses are now presumptive:

Asthma that was diagnosed after service
Chronic bronchitis
Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD)
Chronic rhinitis
Chronic sinusitis
Constrictive bronchiolitis or obliterative bronchiolitis
Emphysema
Granulomatous disease
Interstitial lung disease (ILD)
Pleuritis
Pulmonary fibrosis
Sarcoidosis
18 posted on 02/22/2026 7:58:26 PM PST by stylin19a (Donate blood? NEVER AGAIN- Questions: Who's blood is it? Where'd you get it? Why's it in a bucket ? )
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You should contact a Veterans Service Officer immediately. VFW. American Legion. DAV, etc.


19 posted on 02/22/2026 7:58:43 PM PST by donozark (Trump isn't a fascist. America's trains still do not run on time.)
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To: Pocketdoor
he just spent 2 years Active Duty

Did he even serve a full hitch? If not, what kind of discharge did he get?

20 posted on 02/22/2026 8:01:28 PM PST by PAR35
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