Matt 16:16 Jesus builds His Universal (Catholic) Church upon Peter (Pope.)
He sends the Holy Spirit upon it to Teach it all truth John 16:13
The Catholic Liturgy is the work of the Body of Christ. It is formal, solemn, and dignified and the Priests of the Catholic Church, in their role as alter Christus', are supposed to adhere to the Rubrics so as to extinguish, as much as possible, theri own prejudices, preferences, predelictions, and let Jesus work through them as Jesus , through the Priesthood He established, offers Himself to God as a Sacrifice of propitiation. At Mass, Jesus is both Priest and Victim and spontaneous yelling, clapping, cheering, praising ect is out of place in our Liturgy.
The Mass is both a Sacrifice and a Heavenly Banquet and, as such, ought to be formal and orderly.
Now, you are free to do as you desire in your church but don't think what you do is normative for others. I am happy to leave you to worship as you desire.
How's about returning the favor? It might just be the case you don't understand what it is you criticise.