[Maximilian]

This is a very complex situation. Unless there are some canon lawyers on this forum tonight, I don't think you could get a really good answer. Many Catholics here at FR would know the answers to the basic questions, but your situation is quite difficult to sort out from a technical standpoint, although it may not be so difficult as a practical matter if you approach a priest.

[Maximilian]

That was bizarre that it posted twice, and several minutes apart. Not sure how it happened.